14.1.3 changing to 64

[TheKitsune]

Hi, I'm new here... I am having trouble with my reading. See, there is the person (man) I love and in the begining things were going great, he said to feel the same way... But lately he has become more and more distant (currently we are oceans apart for the moment), and last night/this evening, he were acting even colder, and it is not because of the oceans in between, his whole attitude has been changing, he doesn't talk about his feelings anymore and I got fed up and basically messaged him that i'm sorry for anything, and opened my heart about how I felt and thanked for everything, wishing happiness... He hasn't seen it yet... I'm at a loss here, cause I felt this would become a great relationship... So I asked if I screwed everything up with the messages or is there still any future for us...
I got the reading of Hexagram 14, Great Possession, changing to Hexagram 64, Not Yet Across. 14.1.3 to 64
I don't know what to do, if I should let go completely and move on, or just take some non contact time, and I'm having trouble with the reading because I tend to read it in a very positive way, but I'm afraid of just reading it like that to delude myself...
Any input with the reading is appreciated. Thank you. I hope to learn more about iching and help people, too.

 

[TheKitsune]

Also, just tried to aske the question as in one of the stickies, What's the best attitude to take to this relationship? and Yi's answer, 34.1.4 to 46, which I'm having a hard time translating to actual real life attitudes/steps to act. Thank you so much. Forgot to add this before.

 

[steve]

Hi and welcome

14.1 gives a strong warning to be careful with something or someone maybe. I think its directed at yourself and maybe heed warning signs. If this doest sit right then trust your instincts. Line 3 i think is maybe advising that to look at this, "as maybe is this worth it". The advice calls for some sort of sacrifice, i am thinking that your feelings of moving on can be justified.

64 is is interesting i feel the advice may seriously be to go with your feelings before this plays out. You need to remember that this could be nothing to do with you whatsoever. This could be something he is going through that he cant or doesnt want to explain. It could also be something you dont want to know.

The lines to me are clearly stating to go with what your inner voice is telling you.
Sorry to be the one to say anything. I can only reflect on the situation and the lines.

I wish you well, maybe others may see something else , again trust your gut feeling.

Steve

 

[TheKitsune]

Hi, Steve. Thank you for your input, it kinda makes sense and I think it warned me against doing what I did. I really thank you so much for your input. I'm really grateful.
After I posted that, I acted reckelessly and pretty much screwed everything up following my impulses and feelings, and he decided we should go separate ways. Though I still have this feeling we were meant to be ever since we met, and this is not changing. I don't know if I should let go of him completely or not, just give it sometime and see if he comes around.
I've just had a new reading asking 'How should I proceed now in relation to the person I love?", and got an unchanging 57 Subtly Penetrating. Any help with this new advice would come handy, since I'm still pretty new to I-Ching and can read it in so many different ways and my intuition isn't really helping.

Hi and welcome

14.1 gives a strong warning to be careful with something or someone maybe. I think its directed at yourself and maybe heed warning signs. If this doest sit right then trust your instincts. Line 3 i think is maybe advising that to look at this, "as maybe is this worth it". The advice calls for some sort of sacrifice, i am thinking that your feelings of moving on can be justified.

64 is is interesting i feel the advice may seriously be to go with your feelings before this plays out. You need to remember that this could be nothing to do with you whatsoever. This could be something he is going through that he cant or doesnt want to explain. It could also be something you dont want to know.

The lines to me are clearly stating to go with what your inner voice is telling you.
Sorry to be the one to say anything. I can only reflect on the situation and the lines.

I wish you well, maybe others may see something else , again trust your gut feeling.

Steve

 

[steve]

Hi

I see 57 as kind of letting the situation go, submitting to the situation. Gentle accepting, i would let things unfold naturally and dont push issues and see what happens. Sometimes when we get unchanging hex's the Yi is kind of yelling, i think in this case you kind of get the message but dont want to. At this stage the Yi is giving gentle advice , let this go for now and things will be okay.

Steve

 

[TheKitsune]

Thank you so much, Steve. Yes, that makes sense and what is i've been doing, just letting the river flow and patiently waiting while living my life one day at a time. I'm sure things will change and he will come around on his own.

 

[steve]

If not things may change for you as this is the advice to stay on a good path