14.3>38 the prince and the offering to the son of heaven

[diidii]

in a previous thread of mine I talked about a guy I was dating in the middle of the pandemic. we haven't seen each other for 3 weeks (he left for the holidays) and not I didn't want to create controversy at the moment, so I asked: how do you see me? hex 14.3> 38. I feel him a bit distant but I don't want to talk to him on the phone, I prefer to talk to him closely and in the meantime I have asked ching for advice. i read that 14.3 means that she sees me as a person who only thinks of herself? attention seeker? and for this reason he is moving away from me (38)?

 

[diidii]

nobody?

 

[mandarin_23]

Hi diidii, apart from the Yi I think it is not very useful to doubt yourself that much:

read that 14.3 means that she sees me as a person who only thinks of herself? attention seeker? and for this reason he is moving away from me (38

In general, 14.3 asks you to be generous. In 38 there is the distance, probably. 14.3 is a line which speaks about doing your best, giving your best, even though there will be no visible advantage straight away. So the Yi probably sees you as a caring person? I don't think that there is any egotism in this line. Best to be confident!

All the best
Mandarine_23

 

[diidii]

Hi diidii, apart from the Yi I think it is not very useful to doubt yourself that much:


In general, 14.3 asks you to be generous. In 38 there is the distance, probably. 14.3 is a line which speaks about doing your best, giving your best, even though there will be no visible advantage straight away. So the Yi probably sees you as a caring person? I don't think that there is any egotism in this line. Best to be confident!

All the best
Mandarine_23

So he sees me as a generous person So why do I feel him so distant? I have a tendency to confuse my brain when I see that something is wrong, but at the moment I would not want to tell him anything so as not to create controversy

 

[Matali]

Hello !
14.3 : I also think it's a positive line... 38 in couple relationships is often the sign of a worn couple, so he may have problems with his ex-wife or ex-girlfriend... but the problem is not about you. Patience

 

[diidii]

Hello !
14.3 : I also think it's a positive line... 38 in couple relationships is often the sign of a worn couple, so he may have problems with his ex-wife or ex-girlfriend... but the problem is not about you. Patience

he has no ex wife or ex girlfriend as they are his first real acquaintance. people can be wrong. patience. next time maybe you'll get it right.

 

[Olga Super Star]

So he sees me as a generous person So why do I feel him so distant?

Hallo!
The only person who can tell you how they see you it's actually they themselves.
The I ching responds to you and you only, and it doesn't tell you what's in other people's mind, it can only tell you where you are in a relationship or a situation.
That's why a good question to ask would be, "Where am I in this relationship?" or "Some advice towards this person" or "What is the potential between us as a couple?".

38 makes me think you see things in different ways. There is some potential but maybe he expects something different. Only time will tell.

Remember to update in the future!

 

[diidii]

Hallo!
The only person who can tell him how they see you it's actually they themselves.
The I ching responds to you and you only, and he doesn't tell you what's in other people's mind, he can tell you where you are in a relationship or a situation.
That's why a good question to ask would be, "Where am I in this relationship?" or "Some advice towards this person" or "What is the potential between us as a couple?".

38 makes me think you see things in different ways. There is some potential but maybe he expects something different. Only time will tell.

Remember to update in the future!

All right! thanks a lot again. as soon as I see it again I will update you. All right! thanks a lot again. as soon as I see it again I will update you

 

[Olga Super Star]

There s no need for a quick update, sometimes a cast takes years to play out.
I am understanding my casts from the past In a better way now than when I casted them!

 

[diidii]

There s no need for a quick update, sometimes a cast takes years to play out.
I am understanding my casts from the past In a better way now than when I casted them!

I understood some of my cast after a year! when you understand them it all seems so simple

 

[diidii]

update: came back last night and we talked. the cause of his "detachment" was a family problem. perhaps 14.3 (the son makes the offering to heaven) meant that he was helping his family and 38 indicated the misunderstandings between them. in any case everything was solved. I hope I have been helpful and I sincerely thank those who have helped me.

 

[marybluesky]

Hello;

14.3, in my opinion, says not everybody can do this thing for you. You should date a decent man not small people.