14.3.5 > 10 as advice

[marien]

Hi all,

Usually I scan the archives for readings, but I found little here on 14.3.5. I'm trying to figure out if I should continue contact with a past flame who has recently reestablished communication. This person has hurt me in the past, hence I'm cautious about moving forward. Things felt great between us when I saw him 10 days ago, but I'm not sure where to take it from this point. He asked to see me again; I said I'm too busy now, maybe later...

10 makes sense, obviously there is a danger to this. It's the moving lines that confuse me. Does the 14.3 relate to me; should I offer something up? Or is he the petty man who (still) doesn't have much to offer? And 14.5 talks about benevolence while maintaining dignity? I've always had trouble interpreting these two lines.

Any insight will be appreciated! :bows:

 

[willowfox]

Perhaps give him a chance sometime and see how it goes, but it is warning you to becareful and not to lose your head, step into this very cautiously if you still want to, as you know what happened before. So be wise before and not after.

 

[marien]

That was really helpful, Willowfox. You echoed my exact feelings about this. I don't feel up to contacting him just yet, if ever. Of course I'd like to see him again, but not in a "treading" type of context...
Thank you :bows: