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14.4.5.6 to 5 What if I go this weekend to their birthday?

pocossin

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What if I go this weekend to their birthday?
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Overall the text is positive, but line 4 in Bradford's translation suggests that you might be somewhat out of place:

This is not one's own domain
No blame

Line 5 advises dignified conduct, and line 6 says this social gathering will be advantageous for you. Bradford's Judgment for hexagram 5 says:

5.0
Anticipation
Be true
Honor fulfillment
Persistence is timely
Worthwhile to cross the great stream

If you are expected, you should, I think, fulfill the expectation.
 

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Scorpio Birthday ? Go !! kidding :)

hex 5 Image seems like a birthday party :
"Thus the superior man eats and drinks, Is joyous and of good cheer"

Its hard to say without context and especially the "why-not-to go" but at a first glance it seems it will be a nourishing experience. Maybe there are some other expectations . If yes Yi seems to suggest its time to "relax" and refrain from pushing things but work towards them. Shooting in the dark here , but this is what it occurs to me...

 

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Thanks for all of your comments.

Your comment, Pocassin, struck a chord within me for some reason 'you might be somewhat out of place'

To provide a bit more context, I have recently started a new job and it is both mentally and emotionally draining and I take the responsibility seriously and also do get very tired. The birthday part is a friend of mine and her husband's (they share a birthday) and would require quite a bit of travel to get there and also may be quite boozy; I don't really want to over exert myself early in a new job, which is why i asked the question. I have spoken to my friend and she said there is no pressure from her end to come. There is also a slight alterior motive on my part, as a guy I met at their wedding recently may possibly be going and I was a little intrigued by him, but I don't always go for guys that are good for me, if you catch my drift!
 

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