16.1.4 to 24 -- Love question Language/Age Barrier

[ec456]

Ok So I live in Hong Kong from US. I recently met this girl a few weeks ago who approached me and flirted. This was the first time someone I have been interested in has ever done this. A week or so later I add her on facebook she messages me we go on a date, hold hands.. been texting a lot since. We are both busy students so its been just over 2 weeks since our date. 2 problems, I am 23 she is 19.. Quite an age gap considering how much changes in those 4 years. Second problem, her English isn't good and my Chinese is worse (though I am learning and she helps). I got the cast of 16.1.4 changing to 24. I am unsure what this implies so any help is nice.. I am sometimes confused as to whether or not she feels comfortable dating a girl.. feels like she is holding herself back in a way, though maybe she just moves more slowly than I do when it comes to relationships. She did have some awful experiences in past with men.. Thanks for your help!

 

[kkappa]

Hi there!

But what's the question? Here's what I can see without the question in mind:
16 - enthusiasm with a hint of illusions
16.1 - think twice before you make this into something more tangible, don't be impulsive, get to know her first (16.1 leads to 51, so her presence in your life is clearly something completely new, which you also expressed yourself in a way)
16.4 - but there's nothing wrong in having her in your life, this line paints a picture of someone who is sincere and thus draws good people to him (hint: you).
24 - major turning point for you, eh?

 

[ec456]

Thanks for this interpretation kkappa! I guess the question in mind is whether or not I should pursue this girl. I have been hurt a lot in the past when I get my hopes up, so I want to protect myself but also don't want to miss someone special. I have already realized that I like her a lot. Like you said I can tell she is sincere, but at times I am confused by her seeming indifference.. I think though it may be language and cultural gaps. She is hot and cold.

 

[mirian]

Dear ec456,

The Yi does not see problems in this relationship related to age or language. So, in this aspect you have no reason for concern, according to your reading. :bows:

 

[ec456]

Ok this is good to hear mirian! I really hope this will play out the way I want but I just can't tell what she is thinking >.< I don't want her to see me as uninterested but I also don't want to overextend myself..