17.2.3.6 to 1 - development

[lightflower]

Hi All!!!

Once again I ask our help to understand this reading. I asked the I Ching "what do I need to know about the development of my relationship with this person".

I asked this because I might have some challenges to deal with, before I can meet this person again. I asked before if I was going to see this person soon and received 20.1 moving to 42, which I thought it was an advice to look at the situation with maturity, which made me think on the challenges I had to deal with first. Then I asked if I was going to be able to continue with the course where I meet this person and I received 8.1.3.4 to 49... which I didn't understand really. This is why my final question comes: what do I need to know about the development of this relationship.

Thank you so much for your always helpful insight.

Daisy

 

[willowfox]

"what do I need to know about the development of my relationship with this person".

20.1 moving to 42

I think that you need to gain a deeper understanding of what this person is actually about, it suggests that currently you are only seeing the cover, you have not looked inside the book yet.

 

[lightflower]

Thank you, Willowfox. Perhaps I am a bit confused about this answer that I cannot fully understand what is referring to. I pondered about it but I cannot see what I am missing here...

I asked to the I Ching: what do I need to know to gain a deeper understanding about what this person is about and received 14.2.3 moving to 21.

Would you please be so kind to let me know what is this about? Perhaps I can understand the situation better.

Thank you!

 

[diamanda]

"I asked before if I was going to see this person soon and received 20.1 moving to 42
which I thought it was an advice to look at the situation with maturity, which made
me think on the challenges I had to deal with first", yes i think you're spot on there.

"Then I asked if I was going to be able to continue with the course where I meet this
person and I received 8.1.3.4 to 49", this sounds to me like, in your heart you want
to be with this person, but you hang out with the wrong people, while at the same
time you want to be with that person. This implies a choice you need to make, and
that in your heart you already know who you want to be with. 49 shows a need to
drastically and radically change the way you see things, the way you do things, and
'removal of the old' - be it a way of thinking, or a course of action.

"what do I need to know about the development of my relationship with this person,
17.2.3.6 to 1", this is similar to the previous answer, and stresses even more the
need to decide who you are following. You can't follow both the weak/immature/wrong
and the strong/right for you person at the same time. You need a decision, and then
that will lead to a strong bond, and to 1, renewal, energy, new beginning, correcting
the whole course and issue.

"what do I need to know to gain a deeper understanding about what this person is
about and received 14.2.3 moving to 21". With the help of friends, and with being
open, you'll have all the tools, so to speak, you need, to crack this open, to bite
through it, and find the understanding which lies at the core of it. The outlook for
this one is very bright, you're in a 14 position, so you've got the qualities which will
help you understand, also you've got external support (friends), and you've got the
channels of give/take open, and so 21 sounds well supported and well starred here.

So, if you reach for the truth and essence of the situation you'll find it. Then, based
on that, you need to make some choices. And thus a renewal of the whole situation
will be possible.

 

[lightflower]

Thank you so much, Diamanda!