Clarity,
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All I can pick up from your answer is that it won't work to tolerate or be indulgent of the faults that caused the break up (18.4) Tacking the faults that caused the break up is the way to go (18.5) Investing energy in correcting things, has, for want of a better way of putting it, the force of the creative (1) behind it. IOW actions taken to correct things go alot further than you might think. I don't know enough to know whose faults these are, or if they are simply faults in the relationship...either way i think this confirms there was decay there, letting it go on as it was was no good..owning responsibility for the decay is good (18.5)
But it would have to be a wholehearted endeavour, the potential is there, but it is a new undertaking, and wholly up to him.
And the larger issue (for me of course) is the changes that have resulted in him from all of this are not aspects I'm willing to work with. Although my love and devotion to him stands unwavering, I simply do not want a relationship of any kind with the man he has become throughout this.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).