18, 26

[sloan]

This is about me and a man.....
We had a bad break up 2 years ago. He is a stubborn closed man and has a hard time communicating any kind of "feelings". Because he could never tell me how he felt about me I ended it and shortly after deeply regretted it. He told me his pride was too important to take me back. I loved him more than anything and it was too hard to be friends. I just couldn't do it - mostly because of his new mean attitude towards me and jabs - that were clearly projections or insecurities never ceased and he never tried to console me after he would be mean. He always called and tried to stay in my life. It hurt too much and he wouldn't take me back. this went on for 2 years without us seeing other people. 3 months ago I ended all communication.

And so here we are with
"How is _____ feeling about our situation, and what is going on with him?


Hexagram 18 and then 26.

Anybody have any feedback.

Thanks

 

[enmedio de la tierra]

Refrain your impulse to hurt yourself again with this spoiled relationship.

Blessings

 

[willowfox]

"How is _____ feeling about our situation, and what is going on with him? Hex 18.1 and then 26.

The line suggests that everything that has happened is down to him, it is because of his stupid attitude that things are now as they are. He knows full well that the whole relationship issue can be repaired, it has not gone past the point of no return, so again he can make or break this relationship and of that he is well aware but he seems very reluctant to even try to make amends.

 

[sloan]

Thank you enmedio de la tierra & Willow fox for your feedback.

I realize after reading again what I wrote, that it is a negative situation and maybe things are better left the way they are- That I should stop trying to figure it all out. BUT its hard never had been given an explanation as to why.

I appreciate your thoughts even though it may have seemed like a self indulgent / negative / intrusive question.

Peace.

 

[sloan]

closure I hope?

Hi,

I have been having dreams about him recently and although I still love him, I am way too scared to reconnect. Scared of the truth is probably the most accurate.

We have mutual friends and two of them were his two roommates have very recently moved out and left him. I believe he blames me.

One of them (knowing him for 35 years) told me that he has grave mental problems. He has tried making contact again.

I am too afraid to have my heart broken into a thousand pieces.

But I did a reading……

Is he still in love with me?
54.2, 51

(seeing 54…)
Is he in love with somebody else?
14.3, 38

What can I expect to happen between us?
29.1, 60

Your honesty and time is dearly appreciated.

:S

 

[enmedio de la tierra]

In 29.1 you think you can handle the danger; but you cann't. Therefore, you end in misfortune. Very clear answer.

This is consistent with the previous answer.

Blessings