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jbier

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Hi,
I would love some help interpreting. I asked "How do I get out of this unhealthy relationship with R?" because I'm in this relationship with this man R, that is not good for me (lot of rejection going on, just not a match) and when I try to be rational and get out, I get sucked back in... stuck... addicted, whatever you call it. I need pointers. I still have this burning passion to win his love, while I know I should let go. So anyway. I got 2 with changing lines on 1,3 and 6 - transforming to 22.
Thanks in advance...
J.
 

dobro p

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You're really conflicted - one part of you (some kind of unconscious assumptions and reflexes here) are still wanting to make it work with him, and another part of you (the discerning part that knows how to face the truth) knows it isn't working and that you should dedicate yourself to getting through the nearest exit.

If I'm not mistaken, the Yi is telling you to *accept* that inner conflict, warts and all, and in so doing it will somehow reveal the beauty or grace of what's involved. It's a strange call, I know. But you've tried getting out on your own steam, and it doesn't work. So the Yi's saying something about being receptive and accepting your inner conflict. If I'm reading it right, it's something like the grain of sand in the oyster that makes a pearl. If it was me, I'd rather be out lol. But a pearl's nice too. ;)
 

auriel

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listen to dobro's wisdom!

&specifically:
2.1 the negatives in the relationship will freeze into an unchanging reality;
2.3 there are hidden reasons for this relationship which are yet to be discovered (and those reasons could eventually become embodied in future generations)
2.6 conflict itself is a crucial thing for a person to master, a thing that is seemingly set in one's path by fate for the purpose of mastering

eventually these factors will give you a way to accept the standard path out of any relationship- a breakup (on grounds of incompatability) that might-could be managed gracefully &with a gain of wisdom and understanding
 

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