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So it makes not one bit of a difference if you show your feelings or not - a nice and good person will like that show of emotion and give back to you. An emotionally undeveloped person will always find a reason to reject it...
Hi hereiam, and really sorry to hear you're finding yourself in such a painful situation.
Can I just say here, that although I totally agree with what maui said, I'd like to add something.
That is so true - a nice and good person will reciprocate exactly what you give them.
If, of course, they fancy you - but you've already said that guy sounded like he fancies you.
And yet, nice and good people, who reciprocate, are the exception and a very small minority.
The vast majority of people, especially when it comes to relationships, follow a sort of a 'game'.
In your case, I believe the guy felt "ok I've got her" so he moved on to another conquest.
The fact alone that you're so far away that it's a different time zone, is alarming in itself.
how specifically should I handle this now? 39.1.5 > 36
Back off for now, and ask the advice of friends.
Hide what you know, hide your intelligence, go undercover.
Maybe this trick will make him feel like 28, a male, way too heavy in himself.
Disappear on him, and he might just feel compelled to contact you?
But please be realistic - he already doesn't sound like a decent person.
The exact same way he disappeared on you:How would I even disappear now ? He knows how to contact me.
He's trying to control the situation not out of any fear, but just because guys like to have their confidence pumped up by having many women running after them.There's no reason in the world to take so long to do something unless you're trying to control the situation out of fear of being hurt.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).