2 Questions

[kincadefoster]

My goals as far as the relationship I want aren't working out.

All I can do then is change the way I look at myself. I am responsible for how I've acted, carried myself, etc and how that has affected my world.

And I have asked 2 questions recently

"What question do I need to be asking right now?" 46.1>11

And thinking back "The connection between myself and X showed promise, why did it never come to fruition?" 6.2.3.5>56

:bows:

 

[Tohpol]

Looks like your trying too hard. But 46.1 is a great line and suggests keep climbing up the mountain of self-knowledge and maybe there'll be a lovely lady who will take your hand as you scramble up - usually when you least expect it. As H.6 suggests: seeking advice on specifics might help...

My goals as far as the relationship I want aren't working out.

From the outset your intent seems a bit too prescriptive here as if you've put in order for fries and a shake and are miffed that you didn't get any dessert. I'm not trying to be flippant here but can I suggest you leave any goals that you have in forming a relationship and just relax into it? There seems to be too much cogitation and anticipation going on. Let it unfold. It reminds me of 8.5 which suggests that union within oneself always leads to union externally and only with those that offer mutual resonance.

So, don't identify too much with those "goals" for now, but I'd suggest, if you are a young man to learn all you can about the mind of woman and what a beautiful and almost unimaginably complex landscape it is...

Good luck.