20.2 to 59(what i have to do from now?)// 10.2.3 to 13 (what he's feeling?)

[petra33]

Hi there!I'm starting "something" with a guy..I met him a few months ago..We often had arguments (basically he was angry and sarcastic after i "refused"him first time I met him)..But recently, thanks to a mutual friend, the situation is getting better and slowly we are becoming friends (hopefully)..
Now i think I like him, but I don't know what he really wants from me..Plus, I'm off our town for almost a month..
He asked again to me to sleep with him (before my trip), but I didn't feel ready for that step..
So, i asked before to travel "how he's going to face the situation?"(which behavour he will adopt?) and I got 46 (unchanging)..maybe it's positive, but he didn't do anything at the moment..
I contacted him just once yestarday (I asked his contact on Fb and he accepted immediatelly, but without any comment)..
Now i don't see/speak to him from 2 weeks and I really miss him..I really would like to see him and ask him to date, when I'm back..but maybe he wants just "one night" as "friend with benefits" (my biggest fear)..
So i asked: what i have to do from now, to have a serious comparison/relationship from him?
and i got 20.2 to 59

then (confused), i asked: what he's feeling for me?
and I got 10.2.3 to 13

we are not that close and I don't use to send him e-mails or chat with him..and I'm scared because he's younger than me (around 10years), with a tough past like me and beacuse his interest can be just a fact of proud (considering that I said "no" several times)..

any ideas?
thanks for your attention and all the best to everybody )

 

[tifa]

This man is dangerous.

Moving lines in 10:
Like a cunning tiger. He sits in a corner waiting for its prey. Maintain his low profile and play it cool. Lure the prey in his cave and chew it up as he wish .

Resultant hex 13:
When it is "done and dusted", he would say " may be we should ... just be friends..."


What do you have to do now to have a serious relationship with him?
Hex 20.2: you are judging the situation in a narrow prespective. i.e. you don't really know this person!
The resultant hexagram 59: disperse this idea of having a serious relationship with him.

Good luck
T

 

[petra33]

62.1.2.4 to 11 and 22.2.3.4 to 61

thanks Tifa..You are right: this guy is not just dengerous: it's crazy..
We chatted last night and he said he didn't realize it was me..so, he delited me..I said to him I gonna ignore him from now.
But then I used the i ching again..I was feeling quite empty for that reaction..in some ways better...
and I asked:
what is gonna heppen between us?
22.2.3.4 to 61
(I guess we will show our real nature/intentions..maybe it's not the real ending?..maybe we will forget each other, taking our own/different paths?)..in the end I think it's positive: doesn't mean that we will become a coupple or friends, but probably after a little while we will not have any grudge (hopefully)..
He didn't apoligise yet (and I don't think he will), like he was really angry with me, or maybe too imbarassed for his mistake (and that is totally crazy:he's a mad child)..
He's still angry with me because I know things that probably just a few people know about him..
When we met months ago, he told me about his horrible childhood, but for me it's not an excuse to be mad..I had problems too (he knows that) and I'm not mad..He knows that I don't excuse him for that..
it's like if I say "I know that you know that I know..and I don't excuse you.."
but he's angry because he thinks "you know and you don't care..and you should"..

I think he deleted me to play a trick on me, coz on his crazy mind I have "to pay" something ..

anyway I asked again about his feelings (I know it's not a good questiones and too early..but something relevant happened)..
So, I got
62.1.2.4 to 11
what does it mean?
he doesn't know how to behave/what he wants?he want to esape from this situation, but in the end, he (finally) will stop to be so angry to me?..does he see me like the dengerous tiger?
Why man see me always so "dengerous"?..maybe it's gonna be my next questione )
but not today ) any advise is welcome, of course )

 

[tifa]

What is going to happen between you and him?

Hex 22.2.3.4: moving lines suggest some attraction. Rather than a serious attraction (you or most people usually hope for), it is a casual fling.

And about his feelings.
Hex 62.1.2.4: yi is refering to you. You have no good insights into the situation.... and you have no idea what kind of person he is. You should remain calm and find some "peace".

With the moving lines and resultant hexagrams ( as well as previous cast), I would highly recommend to stay away from this person. This is not someone whom you can trust or "handle". As indicated in hex 10, it is not worth spending an extra minute on this man. At the end of the day, you will be the one bitten. It is crystal clear that you should walk away.

I believe there are better people out there that are worth spending time and interacting with.

Hope it helps.
T

 

[petra33]

thanks a lot...yes it's help...I have to move on...if there's something to "save", he will find a way to...but I have "to cut" from now..

all the best.. )