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2010: Career (56.4>52), Health (57) and Love (61.2.3>37)

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Hi All,

Hope you started the year rockin' and my best wishes to you all for the next 361 days...

I decided to do 3 readings for my year, divided in 3 great subjects. My question for all was: "what is the diagnosis for me in x (love, money, health) for 2010?"

WORK / MONEY
56.4>52

The wanderer going to the mountain (sounds epic!:D)
I guess I will not feel at ease at work, but no major changes either. The key seems to be diplomacy and thoughtfulness.
Line 4 says that I'm at the moment safe, with food and weapons, but my heart is not happy.
It seems accurate. Having a job that provides, but not a dream career.
52 seems to indicate no move.

HEALTH
57 unchanging
The gentle. Seems very positive. Relaxing might be the key for this year.

LOVE
61.2.3>37
Inner Truth, changing to Family.
I always liked how though it is inner truth, the hex and line point at our relationship with others.
Line 2 is beautiful. I wept when I read it. Apparently, I will have someone to share with...
Line 3 sounds like a warning, not to be too attached to somebody. May be that "companion" is not too stable, or my feelings aren't... The need of emotional independence. That is a major issue for me: How does one manage to remain unbothered by the coming and going of somebody else if one loves that person and wants to plan ahead -together? That's one to think about.
37, I don't get it much. Not clear on the meaning of the hex.


So, any comments on any of my readings are welcome!

Thanks and best wishes,

Flor.
 

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WORK / MONEY
56.4>52

Flor.

I'll comment on this one only.
Your situation is such that you are not in an autonomous position. Due to weak leadership and no really good colleagues, you cannot extend yourself and do all that you want to do. Nevertheless, you are doing well in many respects, so your position is really not so bad.

The solidity and stolidity of the mountain, doubled, suggests that you might stop right where you are for a while and not try to look any further for work.
 
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Hi Flor

May I ask the date when you got those answers?

And about health: did you have any fear in your mind about this topic when you asked?


Best wishes
 

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Hi Jesed,

My very sincere wishes of a Happy New Year to you.
I tossed Dec 3rd. Didn't take note of the time (sorry), but it should be sometime between 10:30 and 11:30pm.

Regarding health, I just wanted to get that covered, since I was asking about other aspects. I seem to be healthy, I had some concerns in 2008-2009 (a small lump) but the doctors assured I'm fine. No major concerns or problems, didn't have any specifics in mind.

Thanks in advance for your input :bows:.

Un abrazo :hug:,

Flor.
 
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don't be too hard on 61.3 -- there is no judgement in that line ("pitfall," "shame" etc). In my experience that is what even good, healthy love affairs are like, lots of joy and lots of tears. Not to discourage you from finding a calm, grounded center, because that is important to do. Just that that particular reading sounds kind of lovely to me. I feel the same way as you about 61.2
 
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oh and 37 means home and family, people who share the home and live together. Obviously that could mean literally marrying and/or moving in with someone. Perhaps it could also mean bringing someone into the place in your heart you reserve for family, if that makes any sense--inside the borders of your heart.

I hope you will post next year about how all this turned out!
 

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Hi Knot,

Hope everything turns out just as lovely!

Thanks so much for your insight, I'll keep you posted.

Best,

Flor.
 

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LOVE
61.2.3>37
37, I don't get it much. Not clear on the meaning of the hex.

At home or in a group of people we know, we feel free to display all our inconsistencies. You might have noticed that the nuclear hexagram hidden inside H61 is H27, the picture of the mouth. Line 2 moving speaks of singing. Line 3 speaks of weeping and singing -- both, alternately.

Sometimes people don't like it when you're not consistent, Flor. I must admit that it is very difficult for most of us to learn to sing only one tune -- the lovely one, the one that comes from the heart and has to do with sharing.

Often H61 tells us something we did not really want to know.

And H37 is about both families and groups. The moving lines spell it all out, starting from the bottom. A group needs rules. Take care of household matters (even when you cannot do anything else). Group members that are overly severe with each other and group members that mock each other will destroy the family. A well-to-do household is good. In a family or group, it is good when people meet with love in their hearts; mutual affection; consideration for others. (Sounds obvious; but so rarely true!) The head of the family should be one who subjects himself frequently to self-examination and corrects his faults. These guidelines apply equally to individual families, groups, and even to large organizations.
 

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Thanks Ginnie,

I guess what I meant is that I don't get how 37 goes with this reading. When asking, I concentrated my question in the diagnosis for the year for romantic love, so I don't think it could be talking about my parents or siblings (I don't live with them neither).

Not long ago, love and family were the same thing for me, but I recently separated from my husband so I'm in a new home, alone. For the same reason, I find it hard to believe that I may find -just like Knot beautifully put it- somebody who I can "love as family" (like I do with my estranged husband). Don't get me wrong, it would be nice, but just hard to imagine.

I guess a year could be a long time, so some things may develop that I can't possibly foresee now. We'll see!

Jesed, by no means I want to sound imposing:blush:, but now I'm curious to see what you could make out of the reading based on the dates...

Thank you all,

Flor.
 
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Hi Flor

I'm wondering... did you toss on DECEMBER 3rd? or January 3rd?

best wishes
 

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Oh Jesed, I'm such a #$%^*!

It was January 3rd, 2010.

Sorry!
(Staying up late is affecting my brain, I guess)
 

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Often H61 tells us something we did not really want to know.

Of course we all have different experiences of the yi but I have to say that this is not my experience of this hexagram, which it always lights me up to receive. In the sequence it says "inner truth means trust" and that has been my experience. Now it is true that sometimes that's trust during a difficult circumstance, during misunderstandings or tears etc, for example, in a relationship, but I don't mind that.
 
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Hi Flor

WORK / MONEY
56.4>52

I would say: good year in general; it would be better for money than for job. Your job is strong and healthy; your money is not bad but weak in this season, it would improve with the year. You'll face some kind of transition, and that would lead you to stabilize your job/money. But it will also imply some kind of troubles, profesional worries.

I wonder if there is some kind of contract -or news- that you are expecting but seems to be hidden for you. This maybe is related to real state or education. If it is so, that would come out of the hide in the wood months (february 4th- april 4th). And you may have to invest some amount of money to solve it.

But, even with this complications, the balance at the end looks positive.

Best wishes
 
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HEALTH
57 unchanging

This was the most worrisome for me, at first glance; and that's why I asked for more details.

In the najia system, every hexagram based on double trigrams (1,2,29,30,51,52,57 and 58) are called Total Clash. An unchanging "total clash" is very bad omen in health questions. But, even when you receive an unchanging hexagram as result - again, in the najia system- there are exceptions that needs to be treated as changing hexagram. That happens when the energy of the day clashes with one line, but the energy of the month produces that line. In that case, you don't have an unchanging total clash.

Of course, when I saw 57 unchanging as the answer for health, I needed to know the month and day, in order to know if you really got a unchanging total clash; or if you got one of those exceptions.


I would say then: you are -in general- a very healthy woman; and this would be a good year for your health. There will be some illness or worries in the middle of the year; but you'll solve them fast without serious consequences.
 
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H61.3

Being moody may make it difficult for other people to relate to us, don't you think? They never know whether we are going to be "up" or "down."

I don't know whether or not this is something a person can change about themselves so easily. Maybe we either are this way, or we are not this way?

In my own case, I think if I were more consistent in my emotional responses, then people close to me would find it easier to relate to me.
 
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Thanks Jesed, your systems alternative to text-based approaches amaze me.

The work/money reading seems pretty accurate. The company I work for is going through some changes but they expect to keep jobs and raise salaries, though the challenges will also increase (we are fewer, so even though money is supposed to increase, so will exposure). As far as the hidden news, they remain hidden to me. We'll see.

The health reading... Good to know I'm one of those exceptions! So far I feel pretty good, I don't usually get sick, and I do check-ups regularly.

Looking forward to what you see on my third reading ;)!

And a big THANK you!
 

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Being moody may make it difficult for other people to relate to us, don't you think? They never know whether we are going to be "up" or "down."

Hi Ginnie,

Thanks for your input. I don't consider myself moody at all (and nobody ever pointed that out as a feature in my personality). My first thought was that the line was referring to somebody else being unstable, and that instability provoking my "laughter and tears", by me being dependent on that person's mood/feelings.

Now, if I have to face a new situation all together, I don't know how I will react. I mean, I don't discard I could be -in the future- in a situation where I'm the one with emotional ups and downs. But is not really how I interpret the line, nor how I see myself. On this one, I'm more aligned with Knot.

In any case, your comments provide input for further thinking.

Thanks,

Flor.
 
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LOVE
61.2.3>37

Tricky one. I cann't see clearly.

Taking the risk of make a fool of myself (well, it won't be the first time ;) ):

61 is in the past... your love live would be still influenced by wathever happened between last week of april (extramarital affair?) and firts week of july (unstability), 2009.
37 is in the present. A year to reorginaze your love life, and examinate your ideas and actions regarded family, and relationships between woman and man in general. The most important dates are line 2 (second half of february -first half of april, 2010) in order to achieve self control, don't indulge with your impulses; and line 5 (second half of august-first half of october) a king coming to meet his family ( a new couple? the return of your ex-husband?)

I'm wondering -using najia system- if your ex-husband is already involved in another relationship; in that case, his new partner would be interested in getting pregnant this year in order to keep him by her side. I know this would be a huge trouble for you.

mmm... not sure about anything of the above. We'll see

Best
 
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This is tricky!

Even if the question is specifically phrased for 2010, could it be talking about events in the past?
April 2009 was a month of trying -poorly- to patch things up between me and my husband. July was very unstable. So it would make sense. But a reading about perspectives of an specific year being entirely about the year before... that's disappointing!

I can see me trying to reorganize ideas this year... no clue who the king that returns might be (I can only hope, but being realistic... I don't know).

As far as this girl getting pregnant... :eek: Well that's too much for me! I'm not sure exactly what kind of relationship they have, I just know she is around. That opens another question: If the reading is about me and my year in love, could it be talking about her getting pregnant??? Tricky indeed.

Thanks so much for your help!
 
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Hi Flor

Well, with the najia system, you are showed in line 4 (subject line); the key element -"husband" aspect- is in line 2 (and I take it as your ex-husband, since it moves in clash or conflict wit you), and it shows in line 3 a "competitor" aspect who moves against you, trying to become a "wife" aspect and produce a "child" aspect.

But, as I said...I'm not really confident in this reading :bag:
 

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Well, that's disturbing!
But thanks anyway. Don't worry about not being sure, this is not exact science, isn't it?

Now in this case, the text-based reading seems positive (for me), but the other systems show a very disadvantageous situation... I don't really know how to take this.
 

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My first thought was that the line was referring to somebody else being unstable, and that instability provoking my "laughter and tears", by me being dependent on that person's mood/feelings.Flor.

I'm sorry, Flor. You're right. The line could very well be referring to somebody else.
 

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I'm sorry, Flor. You're right. The line could very well be referring to somebody else.

Exactly.
Somebody else being unstable
Me being attached to that somebody else,
therefore, I suffer the ups and downs, the singing and crying.

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It's difficult interpreting a reading for the whole year, anyway.

Getting H37 seems to indicate that the type of love will be when we regard someone as "family," not a new romance. "Family" does not necessarily mean that the people are living together. It can mean groups and organizations as well as couples, for example.

As for the ex-, it may take a while to detach completely. "Bless him and let him go," as they say.
 
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When I read posts like this, I can't help but wonder what happened. :rolleyes:
 

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follow up

Well, I'll pick up Mazaru's glove. ;)

Overall, Jesed's readings have been very accurate.

Work/Money:
Disatisfying job up until the middle of the year, with a huge turning point. New position (same company) in July, with increasing pay (several raises from that point till today), increasing responsibility and more than one promotion. The year started out pretty stagnant -though without economic worries or urgencies) and ended up with very heavy workload, though a more enjoyable task and compensation.

Health:
This was a tricky one. Looking back, health was great. But as I started dissecting the year, I can tell you I hit a low point in February (depression) of which I quickly recovered. Then, a healthy year. I even had a surgery in October (something I had planned for years) and everything went just perfectly.

Love:
This was trickier! But scarily accurate on Jesed's reading. March - April were months of reconciliation with my ex. Though it was not a proper getting back together, but more of regaining dialogue, etc. A year very much full of comings and goings on his end, and increased emotional independence for me. By the end of the year, his presence has become more and more important in my life, also more stable. We are still working things out, but on a level that was unthinkable for me by the start of 2010. Also, when I had surgery, he was there for me and that worked as a milestone for the "King returning".

Hope this feedback is useful!
 

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Wow flor!
Very usefull indeed :)

I love it when people pick up my gloves. ;)
Even more when I read how good it has been.
I hope the upgoing line keeps going up througout this year too.


Thank you very much for giving this follow up.
Wishing you all the best. :hug:
 

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