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21,3>30 ; 22,4>30 relationship

kativa

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Hi I ching lovers!

I'd like to ask some help to understand this hexagrams, because everytime that i'm asking about love relation, i'm not feeling able to understand between my desire and the sentence!!

I was asking to the I Ching about the right attitude towards an old love and complicate relationship and i had 21,3 >30.

When i asked what can i expect in future from this relation? i had 22, 4>30

I asked what does he wants from me? i had 22, 2,5,6 >5

It's weird how the hexagrams 22 and 30 repeat them selves.

The first answer looks like is time to let break with something old, but then the 30 hexagram is confusing me with the idea of clear mind to keep on trying or to let it go? . Also the Grace i don't really get it in this case. and,what he wants that i wait for?!?!?!

Thanks for your precious time

Love
 
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alev

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Hi Kativa,
just in case it is helpful, I think 21.3 is telling you there is a very negative issue from the past that is affecting your relationship right now and needs to be fixed. Hopefully, you know what this issue is in this relationship, but I think it is something that has been a problem for a long time.

I've had many experiences with 22.4 over the years and it has played out in one of two ways in different relationships. The possibility is there that he will pursue you when he feels ready to, if he feels that you are the one he wants. Another possibility is he could be pursuing someone else.

Total guess at the last question would be that he doesn't have much to give you right now is terms of a relationship, he isn't ready or willing to deepen your relationship status at least at the moment but wants to keep you waiting in the wings just in case...

just a few thoughts that jumped out at me :)
 

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