21.4>27 and 48.2.3>8

[literunner]

Something's been on my mind and is like a riddle I've not solved...the issue is: dissolving, if possible, an estrangement with someone. I've made small gestures over months but no real progression. I asked: how can I get X to talk/open up? (we are in a period of no contact)
and got 48.2.3>8
In reading these lines:
48.2: making use of whatever the situation offers and don't demand what's not there. If you're not allowed to lift your legs then create tap-dancing.
48.3: Even if you can't figure out anything, if something has your attention some idea will come. Look at it from all sides. Solve the blocks of a heart not glad.

And then I asked: what is the best way, if any, to end the estrangement?
and got 21.4>27
9 at 4: Biting dried-out meat with the bone. Acquiring a metal arrow head. Harvest: a difficulties' determination. Auspicious.
Only when one goes to the bottom of things, one finds the causes of trouble. Nobody likes to go there, finding problems which are difficult to solve. But it is the only way to make things work really good.

So...be determined to sort it out? In practical terms, I'm still not sure what Yi is advising--because we are not speaking. Hmmmmm...stumped.
And about the lines in 48, they could mean--if you can't get together to talk with someone, make the best of what you can work on-- union with others, with those you can talk with.
Any experiences with these lines or help with these readings? Would really appreciate it.
:bows:

 

[gato]

I think is reflecting the situation back to you :
48.2.3 - Your potential is not yet recognized (or a relation potential). Hold on to it.

 

[literunner]

Thank you, Gato. That makes sense for the situation.
And about 21.4>27, any experience or insight with that? I read some threads on this forum but still didn't glean how it might apply to my query. Today I found this interp: "A correction is underway. Neither harshness nor careless relaxation is in order. Instead, persevere in a moderate and balanced fashion. The difficulties will be surmounted if you do so." I'm not sure if that means stay open for a change or there is action I am to persevere in.
Thanks for your comments.

 

[literunner]

9.5>26

Just thought I'd add a bit more about this. Prior to my recent queries, I had asked the Yi: "Will X seek me at some point?" and got:
9.5>26
"Small gains and taming resources for future benefit. Rich in your neighbor in truth and sincerity."
Which I took to mean, yes at some point we will be able to talk again, honestly and from the heart, whether I make the move or X does.
I added it here because I'd remembered it after I read Gato's answer--that the well is not being recognized as pure and rich as a resource now, but at some point it will be.
Any other insights are most welcome.
:bows:

 

[yxeli]

i just drew this exact combination to do with a reconciliation too! not in that order, i got 21.4 first.

1 what should my position be towards x 21.4>27

2 how do i solve the problem that needs biting through? 48 2,3> 8

I think the well here means to draw on the depths of communication. I get a real sense here that theres some blockage (line 2) of announcing or articulating responses in real time with me and this person. I think the well is about what my mind and soul need to express but the well, or my expressions, responses, speech is falling short. theres a disconnection between the depths of communication. but i have the power (line 3) to mend that bucket in line 2, the emotion associated with this line is very frustrating i think.the frustration of knowing you have more to give and say and be more 'real'. that this person is forming an idea about me, because my ability to communicate my depths is fogged over (shoots fishes) or something like that?

Could anyone else give some feedback on this one?

Thanks

Yx