22.1.2.3.4>64

[dancing flame]

Hi,

Could do with some feedback on a dating question.

I had a first date with a man recently. It was a blind date set up by a mutual friend (first time either of us have done this). He's a nice guy but there didn't seem to be much connection between us. He spent most of the time sharing his very strong opinions and didn't seem that interested in knowing more about me, or just lightening up and having fun. At the end of the date he shook my hand, said goodbye and rushed off. No nice to meet you or anything or checking that I'd get home safely. I wasn't bothered as I didn't feel any big connection between us anyway but I would have been open to some phone conversations and maybe another date to get to know him a bit more and not make first impression judgements. I'm not expecting to hear from him again.

There was also that old dating minefield of who pays. I took the old fashioned route and let him pay for wine and a meal but sent a text after to say thanks. Second date I might have offered to make a contribution and if the connections were still not working I would have been open to friendship - I have good male friends and generally have no problem getting on with men.

Its been a while since I've dated and I'm only now ready to explore the possibility of a new relationship so I took this as a learning experience. And I'm interested in knowing what was going on between us. I asked Yi, 'What was the reason for disconnection between me and this man? I got:

22.1.2.3.4 changing to 64.

I'd appreciate any wise perceptive insights into the age old mystery of mars and venus connections.

Thanks

 

[Trojina]

Hi,


I asked Yi, 'What was the reason for disconnection between me and this man? I got:

22.1.2.3.4 changing to 64.

I'd appreciate any wise perceptive insights into the age old mystery of mars and venus connections.

Thanks

I think you already said it all. What happened was someone (sounds like him) didn't bother going past surface impresssions (22) and left it there undone (64). My guess was he was going for a certain 'look' or something, maybe you just weren't his type physically. He sounds like a bore anyhow. I wouldn't spend too long thinking about this - this reading is all about superficiality and not following through...move on

 

[willowfox]

I think that he was just not interested in any type of commitment, so you can't expect a connection with a completely disinterested party. Sounds like he had nothing better to do that evening, so just forget about it.

 

[dancing flame]

Thanks for feedback. Its as I thought, he's a superficial w***er and I haven't got time to waste on men like him. We didn't have to fancy each other but a nice guy could have been open to having a laugh and making a new friend if nothing else.

I was just trying to be nice about things, but actually, from our first phone conversation I knew it wasn't going to work for me but was willing to give it a chance. I've got a strong intuition and a sense of whats right for me and I know that I can trust that.

I'm really glad he paid for the night out, at least I can feel that my precious time and energy, my gorgeous self, lovely personality and depth of spirit had some value put on it.

Thanks again