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deekristen

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hello there, i asked a question about a friend, i care about him a lot and i am pretty sure he cares about me too. Or maybe i hope so :blush: anyways, we met about 7months ago and shared some conversations about our problems and fun times and all that but we didnt have much chance to spend more time together now he moved to a different country and invited me for a visit,i really want to go , it should be fun if i can go.

Anyways i asked what he thinks about me, i didnt have anything romantic or sexual in mind when i asked it, just wondered from i ching point of view what i look like to him.

and i got the answer 22.1.5.6 to 39 which actually made me feel somewhat good despite of the relating 39 cuz i like 22, i always though it meant something real. 22.6 gives a beautiful image to me like the real things, like the peels off maybe, i dunno..
I would love some insight.

Thank you all.
 

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22>39 "complicated beauty" ;)

How did I come across? - a suggestion for a question , at least saying it like that isnt trying to guess someone else's state of mind, but in any case there is lots to glean from this reading.

My first impreassion is that it describes the situation, the way you relate is pleasing but there is the complication of distance.

Just as a point of interest, its seems most of the relationship questions in this forum are about long distance relationships, cant anyone meet partners in their own town these days?????

Back to you deekristen,

39 with constancy there is good fortune. I think to put it simply you came across as a girl who is pretty, fun and the type that wthin commitment brings good fortune.

These lines of 22 all point to simple, authentic, natural beauty, line 5 "its the thought that counts". Line 6 I've seen both as how you put it above but also as a blank slate... which perhaps in this senario could be seen as you are ready to relate to this person without emotional baggage...but I guess you know which meaning is for you.

some people say 22 is just a facade, some say its inner beauty...which I find more often the case, but mostly from experience in terms of how you related to someone for me its always come up for encounters that were lovely, fun, enjoyable, merry etc.
 

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hello there, i asked a question about a friend, i care about him a lot and i am pretty sure he cares about me too. Or maybe i hope so :blush: anyways, we met about 7months ago and shared some conversations about our problems and fun times and all that but we didnt have much chance to spend more time together now he moved to a different country and invited me for a visit,i really want to go , it should be fun if i can go.

Anyways i asked what he thinks about me, i didnt have anything romantic or sexual in mind when i asked it, just wondered from i ching point of view what i look like to him.

and i got the answer 22.1.5.6 to 39 which actually made me feel somewhat good despite of the relating 39 cuz i like 22, i always though it meant something real. 22.6 gives a beautiful image to me like the real things, like the peels off maybe, i dunno..
I would love some insight.

Thank you all.

I agree with you on the 22.6, I think its simplicity speaks about inner confidence rather than anything external showing.
22 in general has been a rather deep hexagram in my readings.
Its first line is telling of the realities of the situation, it's a down-to-earth look at how things stand -he has moved away from what pushed forth your shared experience and the rhythm of time between you has stretched . . This isn't the same as saying the carriage is lost though, instead it almost looks as if he (and you respectively) have now become the carriage of this connection. All things aside, I think the line speaks of how each of you carries forth your relating -think of yourselves as wheels that move and keep that carriage balanced to hold the weight of what goes on. How each of you carries your share is decisive to how things roll between you.

Then comes 22.5, which is probably the invitation he extended to you to visit him in his new place. In the line there's some unrest about whether you will -I wonder if you have replied to him . . It's a small thing that makes a difference in progress, like leaving a note on the fridge before leaving, letting you know where he stands.(In transitionals it is linked to 52.5: words are clear and in order)

22.6 is mostly in the sphere of thoughts and maybe encapsulates everything said so far about going from there to action . . it could be the thought of getting off your external 'carriage' (bus/train/airplane) and going the last remaining distance on your own feet. If you haven't written back yet, it could also be about your reply.

As an overall reading 22/39 talks about finding your way amidst obstacles encountered both within and without. It might be taking some time and some climbing is required but the way is there. Between 21 that pushes and gets abrasive and 23 that holds the seed to start fresh, 22 shows a process unfolding (both inner and outer) and dealing with problems as they come up. It's also keeping your feet on the ground and your mind open to finding the simplest, most effective way to keep on moving . .
 
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deekristen

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good morning, thank you one more time for ur kind replies.
rodaki it may be that he hasnt moved there yet, he will in may and when we spoke he said visit me when i am settled, so yeah it is more like a note on the fridge :) Thank you very much... this all makes sense to me.
and chingching i like you, thats it :)
 
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goddessliss

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deekristen could you please give us an update on this relative to the reading if that's ok xx
 
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deekristen

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deekristen could you please give us an update on this relative to the reading if that's ok xx

hiii I am sorry, I just saw this :) I just asked a different question about him.

But the answer to this is ok some feedbaaack tiimeee... :)

After that I proposed a different vacation idea which seemed to fit both of us better, he responded back in about ten seconds saying yes without knowing the details, we were text messaging.

Than we started to look for different ways to communicatei technology is a great thing sometimes though I am not very good at using it, so we started talking more often and we still do, it is great.

I actually had the courage to open up more and make the first move to start talking about "the two of us" and "feelings" he is been responding well, generally I am very happy how things are going so far.

This is all the update for now, there will be more :)

Dee
 

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