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22.2.4 to 14 - generic question on love affairs.

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well, since the standstill is over (I think...it's been a month)I asked: ''how is my love/sexual or sentimental life going from now on? will I have any lovers?'' 22.2.4 to 14 great possession22.2 beard grows on the chin... perhaps someone nice but just to be polite 22.4 someone with a white horse is coming... ok someone likes me but he's not that exciting... i ching suggests to take the chance anyways
 

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I think your result could mean that you are quite concerned with your appearance right now (22.2) and line 22.4, hm, put in context with 22.2 and your question, I guess it could have at least two levels of meaning:
1. it could ask you to search for more depth (in relationships), even if it seems to be not so exciting right now.
2. it could mean, that there will a person approach you, that you first mistake for inadequate, you find him to boring or plain etc. But indeed he could be a good match.
Relating hexagram 14 is very auspicious -- you have everything you need inside yourself.
 
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well...actually there's no opportunity to go out because I am alone and nobody helps... you know... boys nad girls are selfish, after all... there is a guy who is such a crazy selfish person, he treats me like I am the last choice, but he stalks me... he's a bit gross also... there is my neighbour who is never here (looks like a paradox...the ones that happen to me since ever...)i still don't know how i resisted abstinence and chastity for years XD and im young and im not ugly at all, im just shy but that shouldn't matter at all...it's..nobody searchs for me, i mean, if they have faster opportunities they are more likely to find them. i am totally unexperienced despite my age though :((my life in that sense is starting just NOW.The third guy, the one who disappeared and looks around, he just likes to be searched but he does'nt look for u...My neighbour treats me with that stupid formality, i dont know why he does that, but I SENSE he would flirt with me... but you know, i haven't seen him for 9 months... It's quite normal for me to ask myself who he was dating in 9 months...because me...well i dated my house, myself, and my cat, but a normal guy in 9 months may have had someone...too easy to then try with me because Im near him -.- (he is like..in front of my door ahahah)i sense the guy will be him or the rude one...
 

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So you seem to be a bit lonely and in thirst of adventure and there is no opportunity to live life to its fullest, only some guys who treat you inappropriately? You don't have to do with them. Better don't, it could even obscure your view and then you might miss a real chance to be happy with someone who really is worth the wait.
I know sometimes, life phases like these feel like they will never ever change, but they will. Your result 22.2.4>14 is an indicator of this. Think of the white horse that "comes as if on wings. He is not a robber, he will woo at the right time", like Wilhelm wrote in his commentary of 22.4. So you can be full of trust that all these delays have its order, even if they might appear being without end.
 
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I have a somewhat different view of your answer:

how is my love/sexual or sentimental life going from now on? will I have any lovers? 22.2.4 > 14
22.2 advises to look your best at all times. That's all you need to do.
22.4 says that yes, a charmer will show up.
And 14 as a result is great.

So make your hair look lovely, dress fabulously, put a bit of make-up and jewellery on, paint your nails etc etc etc, and good luck!
 

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ahahahahah ok!!!! I will have a small look change. :) and my friends today approved and said ''WOW you are so beautiful like this''So I won't change that look. Let's see who will show up XD for now I told hello to a guy (who is a friend) and he exchanged my chat as an invitation XD omg
 

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So you seem to be a bit lonely and in thirst of adventure and there is no opportunity to live life to its fullest, only some guys who treat you inappropriately? You don't have to do with them. Better don't, it could even obscure your view and then you might miss a real chance to be happy with someone who really is worth the wait.
I know sometimes, life phases like these feel like they will never ever change, but they will. Your result 22.2.4>14 is an indicator of this. Think of the white horse that "comes as if on wings. He is not a robber, he will woo at the right time", like Wilhelm wrote in his commentary of 22.4. So you can be full of trust that all these delays have its order, even if they might appear being without end.
Exactly. I would like adventure but at the same time I fear that I may be only more deceived.
Okay, I will trust the cast and your reading, and accept this someone coming.
But...is this cast saying that some action is needed on my behalf? Just to know if I am blocking a situation or if I only have to be more attractive like the other user said :)
 

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I have a somewhat different view of your answer:

how is my love/sexual or sentimental life going from now on? will I have any lovers? 22.2.4 > 14
22.2 advises to look your best at all times. That's all you need to do.
22.4 says that yes, a charmer will show up.
And 14 as a result is great.

So make your hair look lovely, dress fabulously, put a bit of make-up and jewellery on, paint your nails etc etc etc, and good luck!

Finally I just have to act like a woman xD
thank you Dia ^^
'Will try!
 

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I am with equinox here: you don't have to settle!
Life is an adventure, don't settle for just what appears in plain sight (specially if it does not suit you), other things are coming your way.
I Ching saying there is someone for you doesn't (necessarily) mean he is around you right now.

All the best!
 

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12. Stagnation does not end by itself. Although your question about having a friend was specifically framed to include a time limit, I think your answer only indicated that there would be no progress by the end of February. This doesn't necessarily mean that after February the stagnant situation would then automatically start moving.
Good news is that it sounds as if you are instinctively doing things to re-energize, improving your appearance etc., and so Standstill should evolve to 13. Gaining Friends.
I just mention this so you will be encouraged to keep priming the pump!
 

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12. Stagnation does not end by itself. Although your question about having a friend was specifically framed to include a time limit, I think your answer only indicated that there would be no progress by the end of February. This doesn't necessarily mean that after February the stagnant situation would then automatically start moving.
Good news is that it sounds as if you are instinctively doing things to re-energize, improving your appearance etc., and so Standstill should evolve to 13. Gaining Friends.
I just mention this so you will be encouraged to keep priming the pump!
 

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I apologize for the double posting. Something is off with my computer and the editing button doesn't work for me either!
 

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12. Stagnation does not end by itself. Although your question about having a friend was specifically framed to include a time limit, I think your answer only indicated that there would be no progress by the end of February. This doesn't necessarily mean that after February the stagnant situation would then automatically start moving.
Good news is that it sounds as if you are instinctively doing things to re-energize, improving your appearance etc., and so Standstill should evolve to 13. Gaining Friends.
I just mention this so you will be encouraged to keep priming the pump!
Yeah i was like... sleeping and feeling like a kicked dog...
But right now I am going to change this, starting from the apprarence (to boost the motivation ^^)
Thank you for encouraging me! I hope to harvest some news soon.
 

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I am with equinox here: you don't have to settle!
Life is an adventure, don't settle for just what appears in plain sight (specially if it does not suit you), other things are coming your way.
I Ching saying there is someone for you doesn't (necessarily) mean he is around you right now.

All the best!

I really wished to be thinking this way before but well yeah i will let life surprise me everytime and more!!
so you think it's not any of the guys who were around me lately...
 

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well, only two things ''happened'' so far (if they are even something to post about -.-''):- neighbour told me hello while I was trying not to be seen XD- the guy i would have loved to be friend with disappeared for 1 month and is loving to hang out with a girl and a friend...- the stupid guy said he wanted to know if i liked him, but then he disappeared... AGAIN...im sure he will come out again when he won't have girls around...
 

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it doesn't allow me to edit the post...i casted one more time... I asked if this someone is really coming XD it said 19.1, which becomes 7... I guess he does, because line 1 of 19 says ''approaching in common. Persistence provides health'' in common...well i guess it's something i will share or agree with...
 

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I asked if this someone is really coming XD it said 19.1

Yes, the I-Ching seems to comfirm. What will you ask the next time? "Hey I-Ching is this someone really coming -- I mean really, no shit?":D
 
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how is my love/sexual or sentimental life going from now on? will I have any lovers? 22.2.4 > 14
22.2 advises to look your best at all times. That's all you need to do.
22.4 says that yes, a charmer will show up.
And 14 as a result is great.

This is the danger of asking such a general question, without a time limit in it.
"From now on"? And "time is ticking"? It sure always does!

You're very young, and you asked "from now on". Of course there will be someone, at some point.
You should always specify the time, in my opinion.
For example, "how is my love life going to be in March?".
 

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i asked "soon" but maybe I forgot to write it. But let's give it another try:
Will there be anybody for me from now to end of March?
10 hexagram. Unchanging.
This is weird...it says I will be cautious but the tiger doesn' bite, i wonder what that means here.
 
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Will there be anybody for me from now to end of March?
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Yes there will be someone in the picture, but what happens between you is not determined yet. How it will go will totally depend on the steps taken, and on being cautious, with good manners. One of the two of you is a difficult character so the other needs to tip-toe around them.
 

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Will there be anybody for me from now to end of March?
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Yes there will be someone in the picture, but what happens between you is not determined yet. How it will go will totally depend on the steps taken, and on being cautious, with good manners. One of the two of you is a difficult character so the other needs to tip-toe around them.
I wonder if this tiger could be some risk or some excitement to try things with this someone...I read it somewhere.

Ah yes, i guess that like you said I will have to deal with a difficult character... I usually deal with self centered boys even if i dont like that. Me, i'm just very much shy and critic but I dont act selfish or proud like they do...
 

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There will be a guy in some days, who is kinda problematic and weird and difficult...i think he could be represented as the tiger because its driving me nuts just the thought i will have to deal with his stupid manners.....
 

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Nothing yet. I had various gatherings among friends but I can't really approach as I would. The guys seemed interested in me but I don't like any of them. The only one was the one who was rude to me before, and this just created a barrier betweem me and him. He is suddenly kinda nice but I know this can't be a signal because one doesn't change like that in some months. Despite that, we somehow exchanged a few words and he is now believing we are friends. =_= Ah and of course he talks with a lot of girls.
 

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I quote the ''difficult'' character and the tip-toe tactics.
 

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It is time to ask: will I have any sentimental affair or encounter by the end of April?
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