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em ching

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Hi,

Re the long term role of someone in my life
22.3, 4 Grace - 21 Biting Through

Does this reading say that there isn't physical attraction, and maybe I am deluded as to the relationship's importance and it is one sided (line 1) or that there is something there and the person in question is attracted to me in some way, or at least gets something from me too (line 4)?

And would you read Biting Through as my effort should be in getting over it and moving on and away from the influence? Or that the relationship will bite through what is lacking, and remain in my life as a positive eventually?

Would really appreciate objectivity on this one, because though I'm trying not to, I can't let go of the idea that though the relationship isn't perfect, it is nevertheless special.. But i don't know if I'm kidding myself now, on all levels (friendship or otherwise...)

Thanks.
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You're in love with the guy (22:3), so 'friendship' is an impossibity.
As to how the situation is, i'm afraid it's one sided, and superficial (22).
You are waiting for him to come on a white horse (22:4), but he won't.
What makes that impossible is the fact that he knows you're infatuated.
If only this line was changing, the result would be 30, but it's not, so it's 21.
You would have to force things if you want to be with him (21).
And it just doesn't sound right to force someone into a relationship.
Em the relationship with 'that' guy sounds totally hopeless, i wish i could
say otherwise, but all your answers so far point to the same fact.
 

em ching

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It is Diamanda I know.
I can see so clearly now. Line 3 - unrequited love. Line 4 - someone who cares will always be there on their horse, and he isn't.

Thanks.
In a nutshell, I want all or nothing with him (and perhaps now he realises that though nothing has been said) So it is over.

I'm sorry to have replayed this issue when it has been glaringly obvious from the start - I over emphasised his importance and he became a projection. Never mind.

I asked the Yi - What is my problem (why is the denial side of myself so strong and desperate?)

I received a very fitting answer - 19.6 Approach > 41 Decrease

Perhaps saying simply, I should expect less of people.

Thanks again.
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