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22.4.6 Should I feel insecure?

MariaElisa

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Hi all!

I'm seeing this guy for almost a year now, from friends into more romantic going deeper and more intense.

Few days ago he confessed he still feels attracted to this lady whom he took out on dates before me and by third it was intolerable and then no more and tries to avoid her as much as possible, she is very beautiful indeed but looks like the kind of personality that does not get along with people. He insisted his sincerity in telling me this is because he values what we have.

I can't help myself feeling a little insecure, so I asked the IChing for advise, if his attraction to her is to the point of losing me, received hexagram 22.4.6. What I feel the message here is, is that he is attracted to her beauty and no more but he feels the abundance of a wholeness of real connection with me.

Please advise, thank you!!!
 

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Hi MariaElisa

2 questions
a) When did he tell you that? what day it was?
b) This new question, did you get it on March 27th?
 

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He told me that last Friday March 25th at 12.35am local, and I cast the question today March 27th at around 4.30pm local.
 
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Hi MariaElisa,
This hexagram speaks about beauty from within (based on sincerity and purity) and beauty that is just passing and based on external appearances.
I agree with you, the reading speaks about a sincere beauty, which lasts and which is pure.
But I do not know if the oracle refers to you or to her. Probably your intuition is correct about the reading, especially since he has been so honest with you about the whole thing.
 

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He wants a relationship that is more pure and lasting (22.6) than fading looks and shifting affections.
"He is not a robber, he will woo at the right time (22.4)."

He is not a robber, MariaElisa. He's being honest with you, because he's feeling some struggle about his attraction. I'm not sure why he'd fess up to this. Does he have to see her on a regular basis still?

I can't answer why he'd tell you. But, the lines dictate that he's courting in a way that is honorable.
"An individual is in a situation in which doubts arise as to which is better--to pursue the grace of external brilliance, or to return to simplicity. The doubt itself implies the answer." (W/B)

I'd feel a sense of relief if I were to receive these lines. Don't allow doubts to distract you from the essence of your connection. Have confidence, if not in him, which I believe you should, in yourself. Keep your center and know that what's real remains; and that if he chooses to leave you for a woman he does not love or have a deeper connection with but is only superficially attracted to, then he is not the man for you.
 

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