22 > 63 Am I ready?

[irma]

Hello,

I am new to this forum, it was reccommended to me by a friend. English is not my language so forgive me any spelling errors.

I have been single for quite a while now and I feel ready for a new relationship so I asked the I Ching: Am I ready to be in a love relationship and the answer was 22 with ml 5 & 6 moving to 63. I take this as a very positive answer confirming that I am indeed ready and the answer is even speaking about marriage! To me it looks like the IC is telling me that I already have met this person and the connection already there, however I can't think of someone I know that I could start to date. What do you think about this?

Thanks a million.
Irma

 

[my_key]

Hi Irma


22 - What shines on the inside is what people see on the outside. Be brave and beautiful, but it's important that you take things slowly.
22.4 - Be yourself and not what you think other people want you to be. Approach relationships with a simplicity and honesty. Beware the knights in shining armour, not everyone you meet will be right for you. But Mr Right is out there waiting round the corner.
22.5 - Don't doubt what you have to offer a relationship. There may a few false starts but this will show you what you really have to give and the right person for you.
63 - You have come through the confusion. Based on the past experiences, you are aware of what could go wrong with your relationships. Use this knowledge to help you shape how you go forward now so that it is successful.

Take Care.
Mike

 

[bamboo]

Agreeing with Mike...line 5 is wondering if what you are is enough, and line 6 affirms that you are indeed enough ( ready) just as you are. 63 seems to say the time is right, not necessarily that you already know the man: Assume the confidence encouraged by this reading.

 

[willowfox]

Am I ready to be in a love relationship and the answer was 22.5, 6 moving to 63

You feel that as you are not a film star with a fantastic body, but only an ordinary person who will possibility want to date you but this line is telling you don't worry if you are a plain Jane because it is the beauty that you have on the inside that will attract a partner to you. So don't try to be someone you are not, be honest in your manner and just be your old self and all will go well for you. Follow the advice given and you will then be ready.

 

[dobro p]

wrong reading

 

[rosada]

I see Grace leading to After Completion as the I Ching saying you are expecting you have to be Grace incarnate first and only After you have Completed this requirement are you ready. The lines point out how unnecessary this is, how by simply being you you can connect with a sincere friend.

If the I Ching is saying you are not ready, then I think these hexagrams are telling you what you need to do to become ready. Grace can also mean Simplicity. Simplify your life. Everything you have attracts more of the same so eliminate all clutter. Then you will be ready and After you have Completed this, the last detail will be Simply to meet him!

 

[my_key]

Irma
The original question was " Am I ready to be in a love relationship ?"

Rosada has hit the nail on the head:

If the I Ching is saying you are not ready, then I think these hexagrams are telling you what you need to do to become ready.

This seems to be a really positive reading as there is nothing wrong with being not quite ready for a relationship. In my experience, any relationship will only truly work when you are quite ready for it. If you try too hard now you may end up with a few tearful experiences. Friendship is a good place to start.
The IC is giving you a big cuddle Irma - Take your time, learn from the past, build and brighten yourself up and be yourself and Mr Right will be there when you are ready for him.

Take Care

Mike

 

[bamboo]

IHex 63 = not yet

aren't you confusing this with 64? 63 is the perfect balance. one is already there

the poor girl is all confused now

... i think there could not be a clearer reading to say she is ready for a relationship than this. no one reaches the point of supreme confidence, a little humility is even better for starting a relationship.

sometimes i think it's hard for you guys to just accept a good reading without pulling it apart!

 

[dobro p]

aren't you confusing this with 64? 63 is the perfect balance. one is already there

the poor girl is all confused now

Yeah, you're right - I confused 63 and 64 - duh. I'll redo the reading.

 

[Trojina]

I'm always confusing 9 and 10 in my own readings. A few days back i spent hours contemplating the meaning of 10.4.5 until i realised I'd thrown hex 9.....makes you wonder how many times it happens and you ever realise it

 

[dobro p]

Hello,

I am new to this forum, it was reccommended to me by a friend. English is not my language so forgive me any spelling errors.

I have been single for quite a while now and I feel ready for a new relationship so I asked the I Ching: Am I ready to be in a love relationship and the answer was 22 with ml 5 & 6 moving to 63. I take this as a very positive answer confirming that I am indeed ready and the answer is even speaking about marriage! To me it looks like the IC is telling me that I already have met this person and the connection already there, however I can't think of someone I know that I could start to date. What do you think about this?

Thanks a million.
Irma

If you read my previous reading, sorry if I confused you, cuz I confused 63 and 64 myself. So... new reading:

22 is about beauty, grace, and adorning a situation, and 63 is about things (and you) being in the right place, so overall the message seems to be: the relationship you're asking about is a thing of beauty and you're in the right place.

As for the individual lines, 22.5 talks about not having a lot to offer but things are okay in the end, and 22.6 talks about how a plain and simple approach is best. So, in the context of your question, it seems to be saying something like 'keep it modest and simple with this relationship'.

 

[irma]

To ALL of you who took your precious time and knowledge to answer my question I would like to say a BIG THANKS:bows: I am definitely not regretting following my friends advice to ask the IC and you guys for advice. I admire your knowledge and all what you said will help me move forward in confidence.
A big hug to all of you