24.1.3.6 > 52 Stay or leave?

[desertlark]

Hello everyone. I need some help. I do not want to describe my situation with details becouse It is not necessary I think . What I can simply say is that I am really tired by waiting and and creating maybe a false hope that the other person will change. So my question was: It is better to stay or leave the situation? I got 24.1.3.6 > 52 Hex.

I think hex. 52 says that to do not disturb the situation . I have read somewhere the interpretation of this hex. which tells :
"The hexagram means resisting change, it does not mean stopping all movement. It means actively resisting disturbance to the process - preventing new movements from starting and ensuring existing movements continue without change - in a manner that is modest so as not to disturb. "

The answer is confusing for me . Maybe someone would help me with this ?

I have also asked another question: I `ve said to I ching that I feel that it is over and I do not see any hope.Generally I feel that the other person plays very good and seems to be very careless about everything what can happen. I got 60.4.5 > 54

Any ideas?
I `d be thankful for any help :bows:

 

[hopex]

24 to 52 is surely return, a turning point and stay still.

60 limitations but 54 is generally working within a situation
that you can influence

only my humble opinion hope you get good interp of these

hope x

 

[modestlearner]

So my question was: It is better to stay or leave the situation? I got 24.1.3.6 > 52 Hex.

Though things are beginning to change for the better (24) thoughts of leaving the situation have already begun to take root in your mind (line 1), but despite this growing urge, you still second-guess yourself (line 3), even though somewhere inside you have made up your mind that it is too late (line 6) and so you are in that moment between knowing your truth and acting upon it (52).

The wording of the second question you pose confirms the Yi's reply in the first cast--that is you already feel that there is no hope. The question of whether there is any hope was not posed to Yi....you may want to think about what that means.

Modest Learner

 

[desertlark]

Thank you for helping me with interpretations I have already think it over and you helped me very much. I have to say that hex.52 indicated that I should not jump into any conclusions becouse it was too soon for that . Yi was trying to tell me that I should not make any decisions until I will get more informations. It was like a lacking puzzle However It was hard to calm down , sometimes the emotions rise up to the first place and it is impossible to escape them. Self-control is needed sometimes The secound reading just showed exactly what I was thinking about the other person.

Thank you very much once again:bows: