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serinasioux

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So I have this friend that I have known for about six years. The nature of our relationship has always seemed somewhat ambiguous to me. When we first met we dated casually but I ended up in another relationship for about 4 years. When I told him I was unavailable it was no big deal, we moved on and remained friends. Since then he has been a strong source of emotional support and rationale throughout the years. Basically, if I have a problem that I am having difficulty seeing from a non-emotional perspective on my own he is the wise and non-judging person that I turn to. I have always admired and respected his ability to navigate through life smoothly, to the extent that I try to be more like him when I recognize that certain behaviors are not working in my favor. I guess I have always been in love with him but my chaotic self is intimidated by his "togetherness." He knows this, as I have told him before, not just once. The problem with that is that usually when that discussion comes up it hasn't been talked about for a while, I am probably a couple thousand miles away (I travel a LOT) he will say that he is flattered but can't promise anything because there is no telling when I will be back and life goes on. The next time I see him there is always heavy flirtation that goes nowhere and I then am off again.

He has always been generous in showing that he cares about me as a friend and he is clearly attracted to me but there has never been any real effort made to pursue a romantic relationship on either part.

So after I hadn't heard from him for a month or two we talked a bit and I had that nagging confusion lingering I asked the Yi "What is the reality of my relationship with him?" and the answer was 24 changing to 8.

Interpretations please?
 
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Also, good follow up questions that might make things more clear would be helpful. I'm not confident that I am phrasing my questions properly enough :)
 

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