24 unchanging...mystery to me...same person

[innertruth]

Hello all...
24 unchanging came to me twice...I asked about same person I have tormenting relationship with...

I asked what attitude is best to keep towards her at all times?

and Whether I can relax completely in her presence (meaning trust, not expecting any verbal or emotional harm)?

Please what you think...
Seems that 24 says go back to myself?

 

[radiofreewill]

Yep, return your power to yourself.

This is actually the best attitude to keep at all times with everyone, young jedi.

If you are at peace and secure with yourself, then whose words or feelings can hurt you?

So, returning your power to yourself ~ asserting your sovereignty over your own awareness ~ puts you beyond torment, and also shows the tormentor the way out from their own suffering, too. It also makes you more attractive...to everyone.

With co-dependency, though, somebody has to start the healing process...

Use the Force, innertruth.

 

[oceangirl]

Close the door on the darkness of her, the relationship or whatever the darkness is (the torment) and turn to your inner light.

 

[innertruth]

Thank you guys...i love word shutting doors in winter solistice

 

[rosada]

I see 24 as a meditation on forgiveness. After the Splitting Apart in 23 how do we eventually Return to the Innocence of 25. If you read the lines with this prospective you may get some insights. I think the key one is that the truth has to come out. So if your frienemy isn't willing to be straight with you you shouldn't gloss over the past and pretend it never happened or at least you should be forewarned that the pattern is likely to repeat.

 

[weaver]

Something like - keep meeting this person and other people, and keep returning to yourself in between? That return to self is the most important part, but the outer traffic also. It can be difficult to hear when one person seems so important, but in 24 I get the sense that you are being asked to see that this is just a small part of a whole life.

 

[innertruth]

Thats a very close person...a family...
So i needed something to hold on to because i cannot simply break this tie...but i love
The fact that i need to turn into myself...not her anymore for support, because i would not get something i need...emotionally, mentally...
So 24 kind of sounds to be on my own and trust
my inner self..?

 

[innertruth]

Yes, rosada. I feel that past is past..i cannot be same anymore...i cannot have this bond..because so many things happened and while i still long for closer relationship - i realuzed oftentimes it was my illusion..i never truly knew or listened to myself...

 

[innertruth]

Pattern of hardened feelings repeats indeed...so i asked to know what ultimate attitude should i develop to feel free myself...to grow...to become who i really am..