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27.5 to 42 ~ Received same answer twice in response to the same question re: love

rose1901

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My question was:
"What is your advice for me regarding the situation with [person I'm in love with]."

I asked this question a few days ago and got 27.5 changing to 42.
I asked again today and got the same answer.

Backstory: We are just friends.

My interpretation is: Yi advises me to hang back, not take action, go against my natural impulse to pursue a romance or even put out romantic vibes, be passive and receptive. Don't try to make anything happen, but quietly persevere. 27 speaks to my extreme hunger for a real connection with this person. 42 might speak to the fact that the connection will grow over time if I remain docile and don't push. It might also be advising me to ask for help from above (God) with this matter, since perhaps a romantic relationship would never happen without divine intervention.

But I'm not sure about any of this, and since the answer has come twice I feel I should try to understand it as best as I can. Thank you for your insights!


Thanks!
 
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I can't improve on your interpretation. I do think you've nailed it: let it be, don't force it.

It may be helpful to ask yourself what this person reminds you of that the pull is so strong. If it's really the person, then the timing can be waited out with no harm to either. 53.5 seems to emphasize this point. As I read it.

Also-- while people of any ages can be a couple, a wide age gap doesn't "age well." So ask yourself what relationships do "age well." Would you be disappointed if the relationship is friendship and not romantic?
 

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I can't improve on your interpretation. I do think you've nailed it: let it be, don't force it.

It may be helpful to ask yourself what this person reminds you of that the pull is so strong. If it's really the person, then the timing can be waited out with no harm to either. 53.5 seems to emphasize this point. As I read it.

Also-- while people of any ages can be a couple, a wide age gap doesn't "age well." So ask yourself what relationships do "age well." Would you be disappointed if the relationship is friendship and not romantic?
Thanks so much for this, ZeroPoint! I like and appreciate your good questions.
 

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I think 27.5 could be suggesting that you return to the focus being on friendship. That's much easier said than done, of course. Your feelings are valid and you need to honor them, but the way to acknowledge your feelings might not be by approaching this person in that way or even harboring ideas of it happening in the future. It might be about taking all the info you can from this (that you really want a deep connection, that you're ready for it, maybe what qualities draw you to this person, also if you have an pattern of being attracted to friends or unavailable to look at that, may or may not be the case of course.) It might be about learning from this and ending up with someone else more appropriate for you (how I don't know, I don't know specifics of why this might not be the right person, simply that the line implies it.) If it were to happen, it might be a very, very long time. I don't see that in this line but like maybe possibility in the very far future in the fan yao. But perhaps there's something else in this for you in the sense of clarifying what you're seeking without acting on this?
 
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What is your advice for me regarding the situation with [person I'm in love with].
27.5 > 42


Line 27.5 mentions:
拂 using the hand to brush away
經 thread / scripture
And continues to say that it will be lucky to remain at home and not venture out.
Resulting 42 is about 'profit', what benefits a person.

Is your friendship based on messaging each other? If not, maybe the advice is to do so. How well do you know this person? Perhaps you are advised to get to know this person better, a lot better, via messaging, before you proceed in any way or form. What exactly are you looking for in a relationship? In other words, what would be to your benefit? Find out if this person can or cannot provide what you're after, before you even think about meeting them in a romantic capacity.
 

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What is your advice for me regarding the situation with [person I'm in love with].
27.5 > 42


Line 27.5 mentions:
拂 using the hand to brush away
經 thread / scripture
And continues to say that it will be lucky to remain at home and not venture out.
Resulting 42 is about 'profit', what benefits a person.

Is your friendship based on messaging each other? If not, maybe the advice is to do so. How well do you know this person? Perhaps you are advised to get to know this person better, a lot better, via messaging, before you proceed in any way or form. What exactly are you looking for in a relationship? In other words, what would be to your benefit? Find out if this person can or cannot provide what you're after, before you even think about meeting them in a romantic capacity.
Hi Diamant,
I'm really intrigued by your reply because our friendship is based on writing--we are students in the same creative writing program. And yes, we do message each other a lot, in addition to seeing each other in person at school. And we share our creative writing with each other via messaging/email. I've been contemplating whether I should email him a long piece of writing I've been working on (he has asked more than once to read it); if I sent it he will certainly get to know me a lot better.
I like the questions you pose and I'm giving them serious thought. Thanks.
 

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I think 27.5 could be suggesting that you return to the focus being on friendship. That's much easier said than done, of course. Your feelings are valid and you need to honor them, but the way to acknowledge your feelings might not be by approaching this person in that way or even harboring ideas of it happening in the future. It might be about taking all the info you can from this (that you really want a deep connection, that you're ready for it, maybe what qualities draw you to this person, also if you have an pattern of being attracted to friends or unavailable to look at that, may or may not be the case of course.) It might be about learning from this and ending up with someone else more appropriate for you (how I don't know, I don't know specifics of why this might not be the right person, simply that the line implies it.) If it were to happen, it might be a very, very long time. I don't see that in this line but like maybe possibility in the very far future in the fan yao. But perhaps there's something else in this for you in the sense of clarifying what you're seeking without acting on this?
Thank you, redoleander. This all makes so much sense. I do have a tendency to be most attracted to unavailable people so I trying to look into that. I'm grateful for all your insights.
 

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