29 or 12 to 8

[julia]

Hello,

I have a doubt about the responses received for these questions I made:

what if I let him go? 29
what if I keep hoping we have a future together? 12.4.6 to 8

It seemed to me that I might be moved by fear in the first answer, and it seemed that it does not encourage me to forget about him based on the second answer.

The point is that we are in a sort of impasse where I am waiting for him to contact me as he said but it is taking so long that I feel he's not interested really.

Would you please help me with this responses?

Thank you.

 

[my_key]

Hi Julia
Difficult questions like these can only really be answered by you. It can sometimes be a useful exercise just to take one question at a time and let the hexagram meaning bubble to the surface. There is no rush to get the answer. It will come to you when it is ready.

However maybe some of this will help the process

what if I let him go? 29

Wilhelm - If you are sincere, you have success in your heart,and whatever you do succeeds.
Try to answer this with your heart and not your head that will put you on the right path.

what if I keep hoping we have a future together? 12.4.6 to 8

If you keep hoping then Standstill becomes Holding together. Maybe there is a sense here also of Holding Together creates Standstill.

To understand which way round you see it is the important thing for you now. Line 4 - Try to feel what is right for you (raise yourself above all the distracting thoughts) and then Line 6 when you feel settled with your choice take the right actions to bring it into being.

Be well

Mike