29 twice unchanging then 12345 moving lines for 3rd time (to 40)

[butterfly spider]

Hello everyone I did post about my problem last week I made a decision I cast yesterday and got 29 unchanging twice with slightly different question today I asked for help on my future plans I got 29 again with 5 moving lines 12345 I am at my wits end here I have a seriously mentally ill daughter aged 22 a daughter who is 27 and very angry a 15 year old son who needs me and I am selling my house to help them any thoughts would be so welcome I asked if I had made a good decision I have been casting for about 40 years and am so worried by the reading have not had 29 ever

 

[bradford]

Don't think of 29 as a bad thing. It just demands focus. In fact, when you find yourself in a groove and performing well, it's quite the rush, what Mihaly Csikszentmihaly calls flow.
Here's wishing you confidence and competence.

 

[butterfly spider]

Thank you for this. It is lovely knowing someone is out there giving my problem consideration.....

 

[butterfly spider]

Hello again. I cast the coins today and got 64 with 1 2 3 moving lines. Your support that 29 is not negative means that I can move forward, albeit with caution,

 

[kafuka]

I'm still a beginner myself so I may be wrong but 29 seems to be about a situation when one may feel overwhelmed, anxious, insecure, or even scared. I really like Hilary's key questions. Those to 29 are:
What are you sure of in your heart when nothing else is sure?
How can you flow on and through the dark?

In the commentary she says that sitting in the bottom of the chasm does not bring honour, action does. I understand it that taking action is needed in order to have progress.
Your 64 reading advises you though that in doing so one shouldn't be impatient and push ahead blindly but prepare oneself for the crossing. I like LiSe's commentary to the lines as well. http://www.yijing.nl/i_ching/hex_49-64/hex_e_64.htm

If I checked it correctly 64.1.2.3 changes into 30 Clarity so again it's about shedding light on things, having a clear and unprejudiced view of what's happening in order to act in the best possible way.
Wishing you all the best.

 

[butterfly spider]

thank you yes I am scared to move in any direction but feel in a chasm so must escape upwards the notion of really not flaying wildly or just grasping at broken branches is very strong however. I am very blessed in that something always presents itself to me - so maybe I should smile relax and wait thank you I send my warmest regards xx

 

[bradford]

My sweet little daughter enjoys nothing more than hanging by her finger and toetips 200 feet up a cliff, with her boyfriend beside her and some rope for a backup plan. And I don't even worry about her.
It's a matter of getting into it. If you have ever skied, this is the difference between leaning backwards in terror or leaning forward to get the control that your edges will give you.
The image of water, of course, symbolizes moving ahead with presence and attentive response. This is doubled in Gua 29, once for the canyon to be navigated out ahead of you, and once for the water inside you, that instinctively understands that the only way out is through.

 

[butterfly spider]

Just to say that things have moved forward a bit. I got 27 5.6 today. Perhaps I need nourishment. Thank you anyway.
T.