3.2 romance conundrum

[librae]

Anyone can chime in on this. Met a rather fascinating but shy gal on line (yep it happens), we talked about everything and really got into each others lives and intimate problems soon enuf there was talking about romance, love within 2 months. Oh and of course we had an argument . I think things o.k. I know things went to fast and nothing terrible was exchanged, but she is shy and vulnerable. I have received Hexagrams 18 and 54(never talked about that one) on several occasions, I'm getting 3.2. I am really attracted to this woman and now she will not write back. Additionally, she really told me all her hidden problems and trusted me immensely and told me so. I am at a real loss as to what is going on or what to do or what's to happen as she has stopped all communications after our little spat. 3.2 sounds very insightful but I don't really have the experience to apply it accurately. Any insights would be appreciated.

 

[elias]

"Mounted on a horse, not going forward. It is not a matter of enmity, but marriage. The girl is chaste, not engaged: after ten years she is engaged."

Wait. Wait. Wait some more. When you're certain you know just the right thing to say or do, wait... Trying to force progress has brought you to this impasse. Wait for openings to appear rather than actively seeking them, or seeking opportunities to make them. In time .. a most unreasonable length of time, by the measure of your ego .... the situation will clear and progress will again become possible. In the meantime....