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Last night I went out to dinner and normally don't think anything of it afterward with waitresses or whoever but this one stuck in my mind. We told her where I lived roughly and she pointed out how it wasn't far from the restaurant. The usual "have a nice night" and carrying on our way is what happened, but later I wondered what would have happened if I offered a way to contact me or mentioned possibly getting together sometime, but it was too late as I was in the vehicle with my father and we were driving back to my parents place for the rest of the week/weekend.

Later I asked I Ching:

What is the potential for her and I? 64 unchanging. I felt it seemed possibly positive.

How do I progress with her? 17.1.3.4.5>15 (line 4 catches my attention, as it is one that says to go ahead, but there will be misfortune?)

Please give me insight into my feelings re: her. 13.1.2.4 >57 (the 57 could have something to do with me just leaving after her suggesting how I live close to where she works maybe?)

So I'm not sure what to make of this all, but she definitely caught my attention in a way that has never happened when I've gone out to eat before. It may or may not be anything of significance but that's I guess why I wanted to reach out and see if I could figure out if there's something to it.

Any thoughts/interpretations appreciated! :)
 

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How do I progress with her? 17.1.3.4.5>15 (line 4 catches my attention, as it is one that says to go ahead, but there will be misfortune?)

You follow your feelings and you try a new approach to meeting people like her (17.1)and you go back to the restaurant and you talk some more or you ask her out. Line 4 doesn't say there has to be misfortune, there is only misfortune of one gets too hung up on getting a certain reaction. But you have 4 moving lines here so I wouldn't get too focused on each line, my overall impression is this is something to follow up on, no pun intended. Following's Integrity. That is the sentence 17>15 make.

Now if you feel drawn to someone what is the most sensible thing to do ? Well here it's follow your real impulses. Now I cannot guarantee she will respond well, maybe she is already with someone ? But the point is it's important you give it a shot because this is an excellent reading so just doing something unusual for you is a good thing, it shows you going outside your usual ways of operating (line 1). Go for it, don't over think it.
 

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Thanks for the response Trojina! Really reassuring!! :) I have no clue what the reaction would be, as I don't know her. But she's the only waitress I've ever felt anything like this with, like I should go back there or should have left her contact info or something. She seemed to be picking up info about me where she could (like observing that when I said where abouts I lived, that it wasn't far from the restaurant... or asking if I liked going to the area my parents live - as if she wanted to remember such details.)

I'm tempted to pick a day and just go, and if I don't see her to ask about her or leave a note for her. I'm hoping I just know the right move to make because thinking it all out might not be a good thing to do. It'll be a few days till I make it back there though, that I know.
 

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Yes! Go! But I wouldn't leave a note. Some women might find that a bit timid. Be quietly bold and go ask her colleagues when she's serving and have a meal on that day. And actually be honest about why you returned. Flattery and honesty rolled into one goes a long way. :D

Good luck and keep us posted!
 

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Yes! Go! But I wouldn't leave a note. Some women might find that a bit timid. Be quietly bold and go ask her colleagues when she's serving and have a meal on that day. And actually be honest about why you returned. Flattery and honesty rolled into one goes a long way. :D

Good luck and keep us posted!
It would definitely be preferable to me to not just leave a note. Also more out of my comfort zone, which is likely beneficial in this scenario. At the end of the dinner the other night she seemed to focus her attention more on talking to me, whereas earlier on it had been more my dad who she interacted with which could be his more outgoing nature. I think the fact that she switched her focus to me is what grabbed my attention.

For some reason I started having doubts or negative ideas about how waiting could affect things and asked the I Ching "how will this necessary time of waiting affect things developing between her and me?" and received 50.1.6>34. It sounds positive based on the interpretations of the result I've read. Perhaps it is talking about getting rid of doubts and negative thinking, being positive. My gut feeling is she reacts well to honesty and all, so therefore the reading fits in that sense, to not doubt. The question in my mind right now is whether to just drop by and ask in person when she'll be there or to call and ask. I could drop by the same day of the week I met her there and if she's working then go in and enjoy a meal.
 

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I went back to the restaurant. The staff were really friendly, all smiles and everything. But I didn't want to be rude to a nice server and ask about the one I had had previously. I don't know if that was a bad move on my part. It wasn't really being "bold" as Tohpol suggested.

Anyway I decided to ask the I Ching "What is the next step to reconnecting with her?" and received 11.3.5>60. I could see the 60 being talk of my current state of being limited. But I'm not sure if it's giving me information about how to reconnect, or suggesting not to bother pursuit any further. Part of me doesn't want to give up, and I'm not sure if that's out of fear of not being able to find such a connection again, or because this really is someone I'm supposed to be with or something.

I decided maybe I should ask the I ching this: "Why do I have a lingering feeling that I have to reconnect with her?" and received hex 46.6>18. It seems like this is telling me to keep on going, and that it will be tough, but possible. Obviously it isn't easy or else I would have perhaps done differently when I went to the restaurant the second time and received perhaps better results.
 

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Hi.Giving my personal opinions. You should approach her 1st to get more feel about the vibes before u cast more readings since u have got 17>15 to begin with.If you can get a date with her.. a coffee to start. You are able to find out if she is already with someone else. And this information is crucial to allow you to make further decisions.Good luck.
 

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