30.1.3.6 to 16

[Mru_17]

Hello Friends,The on and off again contact with X took a turn in January when I asked to meet and was told that he has a lot of things he has been putting off and now wants to complete. These things currently are his priority. And "why cannot I wait until he comes to me?" I recently gave X a written card stating that I see all he has on his plate and that I will wait because I love him and he is worth it to me. I asked Yi "What is a likely outcome of giving X the card I wrote?"I got 30.1.3.6 changing to hexagram 16. The hexagram 16 gave me hope but I am not so good at interpreting.I would be grateful for help in reading this. Thank you.

 

[rosada]

30.1 There are a lot of moving parts here. I think this line refers to difficulties you two have aligning your schedules and priorities.

30.3 This line could be your willingness to wait for him and is perhaps a warning not to put your life on hold while you wait.

30.6 This line is about focusing on what is most important. If you are important to him than I would think you can expect he’ll get his essential tasks out of the way and make some room for you in his life. On the other hand, if he was trying to gently signal he isn’t interested then this line could indicate you shouldn’t expect more to come of the connection - whether you see him again or not will not change this main point.

Hexagram 16 could mean there will be more life in this relationship but from what you have discribed here I think you may be setting yourself up for disappointment. I mean, from what you say it doesn’t sound like he said anything to encourage you to wait, but maybe he truly does have too much to take care of now that he feels it would be unfair to ask you to wait. Either way, Enthusiasm makes me think you will get an answer soon.
I hope you’ll let us know!

 

[Mru_17]

Thank you Rosada. He is brutally honest. Even when it hurts. Thus I doubt that he is gently trying to signal something unless he has changed. Take for example the other day he came right out and said that in the past I suppressed him in order to confirm myself when I asked him about the meaning behind a comment he wrote me. At the same time I saw him on his birthday in his office about two weeks ago where he again reiterated all he has planned such as getting taxes done, fixing his garden, fixing his car we had an accident in together and so on. This is where I could all his screens open and all the things he has to do. That was the trigger for me to reply to his original statement about waiting with the letter. Is it advisable to ask Yi if he is gently trying to let me down?