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goddessliss

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Hi,
Over the past 12 months or more I have made a lot of changes within myself and I have noticed a couple of my friendships have fallen away. One of them however seems to go back and forth and now I haven't seen or heard from this friend for a number of months and I don't know how I feel about it because sometimes we annoy the crap out of each other but at the same time I don't really know what the problem is and I like this person in essence a lot.

So I asked Yi is this person out of my life permanently -

I rec'd hex 30.1.6>62.
I understand the confusion of this first line because I have mixed feelings about it but line 6 not sure about because I don't know what causes us angst at times.

thku
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lucia

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Melissa this is just a quickie 'cos its the middle of the night an I've just finished work...

30.6 is about getting to the main point of the issue, don't get caught up with all the peripheral stuff. It is about seeing past the irrelvant nonsense that can crop up between friends and just dealing with the most important stuff. What is most valuable to you in this friendship? What is the thing that bothers you most?

When you can answer those two key questions then you will see your way forward I think. You will know whether to take the steps to repair the rift or just move on. This will help you move past the confusion.

On a more personal note...... I think these things are "normal" as we develop and grow. Sometimes it is just growing pains in a friendship and sometimes we just outgrow the friendship altogether.

Sorry to be so rapid but this will at least bump the thread up - I think sometimes posts get lost in the pile ;)

Lucia
 
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goddessliss

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Thks lucia,
I will ask myself those two questions and see what I can come up with.
blessings,
Liss
 

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what happened with this Liss ?
 
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what happened with this Liss ?

Not much changed but we stayed friends of sorts until January 2013 when she tried to force me to take up her belief system so I told her I no longer wished to remain friends with her. It was a bit sad as she was one of the main people who helped me get through the end of my marriage. I haven't really missed her as I've moved on quite a bit mentally and emotionally I guess.- Liss
 

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found this because I have this reading (and have had it before) and am trying to figure it out. Your experience is so illuminating in retrospect:

30.1: This friendship "seems to go back and forth . . . Not much changed but we stayed friends of sorts"
30.6: "I told her I no longer wished to remain friends with her"

I wonder what the role of 62 is in this process.
 

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