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30.2.4.5 > 9 as feelings

reverie

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I did a reading about someone's feelings towards me and got 30.2.4.5 (Clarity) changing to 9 (Small Restraint).

Hexagram 30 seems to be associated with love and some kind of emotional dependency. On the other hand there's hexagram 9, which, as I interpret it, means not being ready and taking things slowly, carefully, not rushing into anything.

How would you interpret this?
Thank you for your help!
 

rosada

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30 is made up of two fire trigrams suggesting two separate individuals. 9 also describes a single individual. Together these two images suggest to me the person you are asking about may enjoy your company when you are together but ultimately sees you as being your own person and the two of you not entwined. Like someone you might sit next to and enjoy a chat with on a plane ride before you go your separate ways.
 

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I want to add, however, that it's very questionable how accurate or helpful I Ching readings are when trying to fathom another's feelings. Rather than assuming this reading tells you how he feels, I think you're better off thinking of this answer as saying "This is how you should play it. You should ASSUME he's enjoying your camaraderie (30) and maybe even assume he's bit hesitant or shy to make any bold moves, but don't assume he's wanting a more intimate friendship (9). Play it that you're getting to know a nice person with no strings attached." If you act this way then you will not be embarrassed what ever his true intentions turn out to be.
 
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