32.1.3>54

[steve]

I have asked the I ching different questions regarding a girl that I am in love with in the past and had some real positive stuff (which is good )she is living overseas and we have talked about marriage and a future etc
I have given allot up to make this work and so has she and I just couldnt turn back
I had to ask do we have a future together and recieved 32.1.3>54
The problem is money immagration and all this other stuff
I took this as being persistent and possibly 54 could mean marriage in this case as i felt the i ching maybe saying yes but with hard work.
I couldnt find allot on 32.3 as well
All in All the 32 appears quite good in relationships , for me anyway

I then asked , what do i need to do to make this work and got 56.6>62 which I really didnt know how to interpert relating to the question but it didnt sound the best also i have no experience with this line. I did ask the question to get advice on making this work, maybe it wasnt the right question?

We both want this to work so much.

Thanks in advance for any help.

Steve

 

[diamanda]

Hi Steve,

32:1 tells you that perhaps it's a bit too much of a grand step to ask for 'duration'
too soon. I think it means something like, without having spent much 'everyday'
time together, you cannot know if you are compatible as a couple. I understand
you're both in love, but that's not the same thing as being compatible as a couple.
32:3 and 54 are both saying the same thing, that one of you is somehow changing
his or her character even slightly, so as to fit in with the other person, and thus
this person compromises their dignity, and ends up in a somewhat inferior position.

56:6 is a stong warning (to either you or her) not to burn your own 'nest' with your
own hands, but 62, stay in your nest. Since you asked the question about yourself
though, i tend to think it's telling you that, if it's you who's thinking to move to her
country, you'll be making a huge mistake. Or maybe perhaps this is also connected
to 32>54 - 'do not change direction' because it leads to a bleak position.

Perhaps the whole secret for you two to head towards happiness is 32:1. Take
things more slowly. To jump from an overseas relationship, straight into living
together and marriage, sounds like a very drastic step (and that would also throw
the one of you moving straight into all sorts of serious practical problems, which
are not the best thing to inflict upon a 'new' relationship). If you want this to work,
then 62 advises you to lay low, and not attempt anything great, for the moment.

Maybe you could ask something like 'what are our prospects if we take things slowly?'
(just a suggestion).

 

[willowfox]

I had to ask do we have a future together and received 32.1.3>54

Line 32.1 says do not try and rush this affair, take your time to sort out all the formalities etc, and it warns you that if you are too hasty then you will mess the thing up completely. You know what government agencies can be like, real nasty.

Line 32.3 says don't get anxious about this situation, remain calm and strong as seeking approval from the immigration can be slow and very frustrating.

Hex 54 now this hex is about a younger woman marrying an older man which is good here, so it suggests a future together, but this hex also advises you to put a lot of effort and attention into this to make sure that you succeed, and you can if you are prepared to work the problem through.

 

[willowfox]

I then asked , what do i need to do to make this work and got 56.6>62

Line 56.6 says do not give up, rest, or become careless, otherwise she will not be allowed to enter the country.

Hex 62 says again, don't try to take on too much now or too quickly as only small victories are possible as you work your way through the system, you must pay attention to all those little details and just take one step at a time, as the immigration can be real nasty, so if you were to make a mistake it could be final.

 

[steve]

I think willowfox is on the money, I've taken this on and i do need to be careful , i think now i can see it like this is that sure you are in love but there are realitys about this situation and i guess it scares me a little, when i could just find a girl here in Australia but it is not where my heart lies.
So i need to seriously play the game and do whats needed in every way so to speak read the fine print
Its not going to be easy, but hey , life is not always about fairyfloss and lemonade in love but will be hopefully in the next life ..lol

I think i am so much in love that, i need to be careful of the real things,,

I''l take this reading as yes you are in love but get ready and be serious

Steve