32.3 > 40 - 39.1.2.6 > 9 - 40.1.5 > 58

[ddream]

Hi again!

I'm sorry to bother everyone. I'm new to the I Ching and I have a hard time figuring out some of the answers I receive from it.


Here's the situation:
He is in a relationship. Nothing happened between us, but there are lots of glances and smiles. There is definitely an attraction. But everytime I try to talk to him, it seems like he's afraid of something or like he wants to run away. I then take some distance, but after awhile, we look at each other again and smile.

The situation really bothers me.
That's why I ask lots of questions about him to the I Ching.


Here are the questions and answers:
Q1: What does he want from me?
A1: 32.3 > 40

Q2: Does he want to go further with me?
A2: 39.1.2.6 > 9

Q3: When he looks at me, what does it mean?
A3: 40.1.5 > 58

I can't figure it out, but it seems negative a little bit.
Thanks again for your time.

:bows:

 

[willowfox]

Q1: What does he want from me?
A1: 32.3 > 40

Perhaps this is suggesting that he wants you to stay firm but still for the time being until he is ready to make a move or he is free to make a move, whatever.

Q2: Does he want to go further with me?
A2: 39.1.2.6 > 9

Yes he does but there seems to be something holding him back, perhaps its fear or not the right time, so all he doing at the moment is watching and hopefully preparing as well.

Q3: When he looks at me, what does it mean?
A3: 40.1.5 > 58

It shows that he does indeed appear to be very happy to see you.

 

[ddream]

Really? Why doesn't he want to talk to me then?

I know he is in a relationship right now and maybe that's why I feel he wants to do something but not really at the same time, but I'm just really confused on what to do. I don't really know him. I can't say I'm in love. But I think about him all the time and I always want to see him and he puts a smile on my face everytime I go to work. I wish I could tell him all that. I tried to talk to him a few times (both by e-mails and face to face). He always seems to cut the conversation to make it short. He knows I find him attractive. I was clear with him on that. He doesn't know how I feel though. I'm not sure if I should tell him. A part of me wants to, but the other isn't sure enough of how he feels to do it. I don't want ridiculous. What if his glances didn't mean anything, you know? Hum, I'm really confused now.

 

[willowfox]

Really? Why doesn't he want to talk to me then?

I know he is in a relationship right now

There you go, you have answered your own question.

If someone were to see him talking with you, then he knows that "someone" could report the incident to his current partner and then all hell could break loose for him.

 

[ddream]

But he's allowed to talk to other people even if he's in another relationship, no? I don't see anything wrong with it. It does not mean something's happening just because we have a conversation together or he talks to me. So, I don't understand why he would be so afraid if he would like talk to me. It doesn't imply anything.

 

[willowfox]

But he's allowed to talk to other people even if he's in another relationship, no? I don't see anything wrong with it. It does not mean something's happening just because we have a conversation together or he talks to me. So, I don't understand why he would be so afraid if he would like talk to me. It doesn't imply anything.

Yes, it doesn't imply anything to maybe you or your friend or even a casual observer but to his partner it may indeed mean only one thing, that he is two timing.

Maybe she is super possessive, so that's a good reason to not want to be seen talking with any pretty girls.

 

[ddream]

Yes, it doesn't imply anything to maybe you or your friend or even a casual observer but to his partner it may indeed mean only one thing, that he is two timing.

Maybe she is super possessive, so that's a good reason to not want to be seen talking with any pretty girls.

True. It's better to be careful when relationships are involved at work. I don't think it would create a problem to talk to me at all, but you can never be too careful. :bows:

 

[willowfox]

I don't think it would create a problem to talk to me at all,

Ah, but it can if you happen to be that pretty girl that I mentioned before.