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33.1.3.4 should I have only a friendship with this person?

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Should I have a friendship with this person?
33.1.3.4
these lines suggest me to withdraw totally...! But I'm afraid to lose his attentions and also his brother/coworker this way!! I'd like to be friends of them. And also for the future. (They are both cute but this one showed a physical interest in me. Right now instead im ok with just meeting more people as possible and then,eventually, choose who to have a fling with).

I also asked: will i be able to get to know his brother anyways?(the one i first spotted)
Unchanging 56 the traveller...well they both travel, they both wont stay too much (one month this year) and they are from another country.

Well for the moment im delaying a friend request of his bro just 'cuz i fear of being distracted or giving too much of myself XD i know im weird maybe bt the one who gave me attention was a bit possessive and i saw him only twice xd...
 
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Should I have a friendship with this person? 33.1.3.4 > 42
You are withdrawing reluctantly, because as you said you don't want to lose them completely (33.1). If you do keep them as a "friend", which mind you how can that be, since the guy fancies you, (33.3), then at some point you will have to anyway withdraw completely (33.4). Withdrawing is to your benefit (42). So I'd say don't waste your precious energy with this person.

will i be able to get to know his brother anyways?(the one i first spotted) Unchanging 56
I read this as a no.

I agree with Rosada, you're doing the right things.
 

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Should I have a friendship with this person? 33.1.3.4 > 42
You are withdrawing reluctantly, because as you said you don't want to lose them completely (33.1). If you do keep them as a "friend", which mind you how can that be, since the guy fancies you, (33.3), then at some point you will have to anyway withdraw completely (33.4). Withdrawing is to your benefit (42). So I'd say don't waste your precious energy with this person.

will i be able to get to know his brother anyways?(the one i first spotted) Unchanging 56
I read this as a no.

I agree with Rosada, you're doing the right things.
What a pity.
Well I thank u a lot, that sounds like what the hexagram told me.
I will wait and see what to do.
 

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Should I have a friendship with this person? 33.1.3.4 > 42
You are withdrawing reluctantly, because as you said you don't want to lose them completely (33.1). If you do keep them as a "friend", which mind you how can that be, since the guy fancies you, (33.3), then at some point you will have to anyway withdraw completely (33.4). Withdrawing is to your benefit (42). So I'd say don't waste your precious energy with this person.

will i be able to get to know his brother anyways?(the one i first spotted) Unchanging 56
I read this as a no.

I agree with Rosada, you're doing the right things.
i accepted the friend request from his brother.
after 3 weeks. I hope this won't be a problem... I don't want distractions and anybody to invite me out or write to me now...
 

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I didn't check his brother's friend request for weeks... I feel a but forced to accept it, forced because I'm afraid he could force me to talk to him xD but it's just an exaggeration perhaps. In a few days he's here and he will try to lure me... XD i must decide, but i can't decide on my own. Somehow i dont wanna lose him...i just need time to know him. And I'd like to feel free...
 
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Hi CheersC, n e v e r succumb to (even perceived) emotional blackmail. If you don't want to accept, then don't!
 

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Hi CheersC, n e v e r succumb to (even perceived) emotional blackmail. If you don't want to accept, then don't!
I accepted because i had accepted his relative but I'm taking notes about protecting oneself from the emotional blackmail, it is good thing to remember that. Last experience with it I had answered a guy who said after two seconds of delay"u disappear again" "u take ages to answer" which was annoying and disrespectful - also cuz then i feel more forced (plus, it was just an online friendship at its initial stage). Let's hope for the best...and never feel forced to do anything.
 
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I sense they mocked me at my back (for nothing) or talked about me but i dont know if in a good way or not.
 
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Hi CheersC, n e v e r succumb to (even perceived) emotional blackmail. If you don't want to accept, then don't!
I think I felt emotionally blackmailed because I have seen him after a long time and he was like "hey! Long time!" but he didn't make me any gift this time. Ahahah
 

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