33.1.4 to 37 friendship question!

[CheersC]

Hello everyone! I'm so new here. I decided to post this question I made with i ching because I cant' really get the reason why this guy I just met did just disappear. We went to the same university, I added him on facebook, we chatted a lot, and then after some months I invited him to help me out on something, so he saw me and I also noticed he was changed a lot respect to the past...
He seemed really attracted to me and a bit nervous, and no I'm not ugly at all perhaps he just thought I was different from him, but then when he left he didn't ask my telephone number.

So, the question was: why did he leave like that?
I ching was : 33.1.4 Retreat to 37 The community (family)
well, 'till the retreat it's not hard to understand...it perfectly fits the situation xD XD
line 1 talks about the retreat
line 4 says that the great man is ok with that, and that there's a voluntary retreat (big pig)
but i can't get the REAL reason especially because then there's the Family ching

could it be that he has got already some kind of love affair?!

 

[ernobe]

The I-Ching interpreted your question as "Why can't I get married?", then answered saying that it has nothing to do with your decision (the "retreat" of 33), and that you are free to form the family (37) of your choice. Nanjing rules give it as 33.4 -> 53, meaning take it easy and gradually he will come about if he is like-minded.

 

[CheersC]

but he disappeared like that... I tried to call him, I wrote to him, but he wasn't that outgoing. and then it was over, i stopped to look for him...