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althoz

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Hi,

What does 33,2,4 say about a person's love for another? It does highlight a splitting, doesn't it? The question is is there still love from them?

Does it mean they are still clinging, and is trying hard to withdraw?

thank u for any suggestions.
 

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It says that the person in question won't let go but the other party wants to quit the relationship and should do so without any prompting for their own good.
 

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Hi, thanks for your responses. I'm a bit confused. Is the clinging person the asker or the asked about?

The question is "Is X still in love with me?"

It's either X is still clinging, or its me. I have dual thoughts about it from my point of view, though. As in I can't move either direction.
 
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I asked another question to gain more clarity.

Can I be happy with him? 57.5>18

What makes it all the more complicated is that he was the one to break off with me, for a trivial issue (as in its not any betrayal). So, if he's the one to cling, it is quite ironic, but I can see that. I dont think he has let go of me, and I seriously want to move on because its too much hard work to repair something broken thats is not my fault.

Ive tried to drop the issue many times, but it keeps resurfacing like a barrel cast out to sea. Thing is, will things get better? 57.5 seems positive but not the decay.
 

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Haha twilight, maybe you should take your own advice for the last statement.
if you try to make your point by insulting others you may be making a mistake.
I dont believe the iching compels like you mention.

And no-one can be forced to drop an issue - this issue is important to me and I wont drop it.
 

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Thanks for your negativity in your seemingly perfect life.
I see that life and relationships have made you bitter; dont take 'em out on the internet. I dont even know you but I can sense from the things you project.

"Welcome to the bucket of dirt. I expect we will hear a lot more from you about your glorious bucket of dirt."

Do you talk like that in real life? Before you make judgments about the "bucket of dirt", maybe you should prove you know what you're talking about first. I don't think you do, but I'm sorry you're having a bad day.
 

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Please stay out of the thread. I dont like your negativity, and "good advice" is not your judgment, maybe you should get some awareness (and foresight ;)).

I am enjoying this little debate though it means nothing anyway.

Edit: Though I know dropping it is the best option, calling it "dirt" just totally negates most credibility of your statement. I do appreciate the ichings advice and your interpretations, so dont worry about that. I just know that ultimately its my own choice whether i will drop it. And its not as easy as you think.

g'nite.
 

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I hope you plead insanity. People like you should stay out of the advice boards. And I mean it.
 

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Nice name "twilight" to mask your personality. You almost got people fooled.
 

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By the way, your interpetation of the oracle is NOT sound. I'd rather take willowfox's in comparison to yours, I'm sorry, and I'm trying to be impartial here.
 

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wow, I'm glad most answerers here are not like you. You're the anomaly. Ive never encountered someone like you online, or in real life. I must have been blessed. :)
 

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Withdrawing does not necessarily mean letting go, even though you may feel that this will relieve your trouble. Hexagram 57 points to a continuing subtle influence and it may be that your relationship can be repaired (Hex 18). It's really a matter of time and patience. Good luck.
 

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Thanks zhan1. I know I will get back with him in time.



"Twilight", I hope you know I am more concerned about the hexagram than fighting your ego. Dont attach so much of your self in your "interpretations" so you wont feel bruised when someone rejects them. They are just wanting the best for their own situation, and using the iching as a guide. And I do have intuition, I know whats best for me.
 

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