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kdedeaux4

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I had a very dear friend/co-worker. We had a falling out last summer. She betrayed me. It wasn't what she did that caused me to end the friendship, which I valued so highly, but it was the huge sense of betrayal I felt. I have been dealing with trust issues for some time now and trying to be very careful who I allow close to me and careful as to how many "2nd chances" I give after being hurt by someone I care for.
The thing she did in itself wasn't important to me at all, but the knowledge that she was able and willing to betray me at all hurt deeply and I wasn't prepared to keep the friendship and allow myself to be vulnerable to that kind of hurt or betrayal again.
I miss her very much and am still hurt over her betrayal, but I'm moving far away in June and doing deep reflections on people and relationships right now. I valued her and her friendship very much prior to this incident and I would like to send her an email telling her so and telling her I forgive her and miss our friendship.

Asked the IC for insight into sending her this email and received hex 34.1 -->32.
The hexagrams seems fairly positive regarding this question...? But line 1 sounds like maybe it's just not a good idea or not time yet...?

(Added afterward) I also asked IC how my friend would feel about the email if I send it and received hex 15.3 -->2. Would really appreciate any thoughts on this as well:)


Namaste' :hug:
 

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Line 34.1 says you want to go for it but it is not a wise thing to do as it won't work out. While Hex 32 indicates to stand firm on this decision not to email, tame your enthusiasm.
 

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