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Happy Sunday, Fellow Diviners:)! Boy, I am up early for Sunday morning! Here is the problem. A friend of mine gave my number to her boyfriend's friend, with my permission, and now he wants to hang out. I've met him briefly once, and seems ok, so I said I would:footinmouth:. To be honest though, I'm just not that interested, and don't really want to date this person:footinmouth::footinmouth::footinmouth:. But, I just thought at the time getting out would do me some good, and now I'm not so sure. Hanging out would be ok, I guess, but I don't feel like this person is really very interested in me for friendship. We've texted for a while, and he seems alright, but just isn't any real chemistry, and I know how much guys love the whole "we could be friends" thing, so I was thinking to just tell him I have too much going on right now, and just can't find the time. So, I asked the Yi "How should I respond to X's invite?" and got 34.2>55., and just for some background, I asked for some insight into a friendship with X and got 14.6>34. Well 14.6>34 seems very auspicious, but I don't think this person is interested in friendship. I'm reading 34.2>55 as this is too much too soon. To top it off, I also asked at one point, "What are X's intentions toward me?", and I got 52.3>23:eek:, which certainly suggests strictly physical interests to me. Does anyone have some insight on 34.2>55. I wanted to either make plans with them this week or just tell them I'm not really interested in venturing into casual dating at this point. Not sure what to do here though:confused:, and mainly 34.2 is the concern here, although insights on the other 2 castings are welcome of course:). Please, help:brickwall:! Thanks so much in advance:bows:
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I've met him briefly once, and seems ok, so I said I would:footinmouth:. To be honest though, I'm just not that interested, and don't really want to date this person:footinmouth::footinmouth::footinmouth:.
Seems like your eating a serious amount of sneaker chips :rofl:

"How should I respond to X's invite?" and got 34.2>55.
I don't have a 34.2 experience that I can think of at the moment but was thinking this has a lot to do with what you had on your mind at the time of the asking. When you asked, do you remember if you were thinking that it would be better to drop the whole situation with this guy? Or do you remember thinking about making a try for it? Which ever one it was, your deep down thoughts and instincts about it, Yi is saying to go for that. Line 2 seems like a simple yet powerful line that is saying what you were wanting is the right way.

34's original character was of a strong man or a tree (and a couple other things;))
55's original character was of a vessel overflowing.

I would say, go with what you know deep down. What you know is going to be best for you. Don't worry about what your friend who introduced you thinks, or what the guy in question thinks, or any of that. Don't just give too much because you feel you have to or anything. Just because you were eating :footinmouth:sneaker chips:footinmouth:, you don't have to keep eating them :D.

Take care:hug:,
AQ
 
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Yes:)! You are totally right! Wow A.Q, you are quite the diviner! I was thinking when I cast this, "Well, I really don't want to go, but I will chwck with the Yi. Maybe I'm missing something here.". And I guess I'm not. So, I won't be going:)
Thanks again AQ:bows:
 
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Yes, this exprience left a bad taste in my mouth:rofl:. Get it! :footinmouth:! All the sneaker chips:p.... What a terrible joke:footinmouth: That is the last sneaker chip I'm eating today:eek:. Who was it that said "girl who eats own feet can not move on:p.":bows:. Was that Bradford? Or Confuscius? Words of wisdom:bows:(JK, of course)
 
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:rofl: Sneaker chips..... It's hard to eat just one.
Yeah, not even relating this to the Yi, but if you get a feeling like it isn't going to work in the beginning, it probably won't. As for my divination skills, my enthusiasm is much higher than my skill level.
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If you don't want to date someone I don't see the Yi saying you should, unless doing so would avoid a war between two countries. But if you never socialize it's not much fun either, so my gut was to suggest including the person in a group situation. "Waiting at food and drink."

10-12 people hanging out talking, buying each other drinks and dancing, when everyone has a good feeling in a group situation most of the time no one feels too bad they didn't pair off with someone, so it's a win-win.

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Hi. I think 34.2 is saying that you should trust your own inner power and ability to respond adequately to any situation. I like what Bradford has to say about this line too. Maybe you are like the hero who pushes on the door with all his might, but the door is not locked and he falls on his face ;) Take it easy xx
 
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Finally, a moment to focus... :rofl: Ha! :rofl: Is that what Bradford says on this one! I like that, Precision Grace:D! Very apt description of what is going on I think... I am not going to go right now... There just isn't chemistry there, and as AQ pointed out, ya kind of know in the beginning if it will work out. But, friends is possible, and I was thinking what you were saying Lavalamp. Couldn't hurt to get out there and have some fun, and the original plan was to go out in a group situation. But, I kind of feel like there is too much of an expectation on this person's part that I am not comfortable with, and I really don't want to date this person now that I have talked to them a bit more. I don't think my friend will mind actually... Maybe, in the future, we can all just hang out. I think I will let some time pass though before pursuing that since right now it would be weird. What could I say? "Not a chance in h*** I would date ya, but we could be friends:D:eek:." I see that going over like a lead balloon... Thanks, again everyone:bows:
 
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