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The reading: 35.2.6 to 40
The situation in brief:
I've been seeing two men. One for a very long time, always non-monogamous and honest about it, the other for about 7 months. They know about each other and everything is amicable. (We're all arty traveling types.)
My long term relationship has been showing signs of falling apart from a compatibility angle. Love but not in love. At this point it's a matter of exit strategy. The short term one has been getting much more intense and I have fallen in love. But I don't discuss this with the newer man because if the other relationship is ending I want it to end on it's terms, not because of my feelings for this newer person.
My question was this: how does this newer partner see me and the relationship? In the back of my mind I'm trying to gauge development of his feelings just to make sure I'm not seeing what I want to see.
I know it's a weird situation, but I've waited for months before asking, sifting through the boards.
It's not like someone can look at your reading and say he knows what this person feels for you....only person who knows that is him, the guy himself....I'll post a link. It really isn't a good idea to think you know what he feels from a reading and an even worse idea to imagine someone else who doesn't know him knows IMO
If it is outside your limits, that's understandable, but to decry it as impossible for everyone is outside ones ability and authority.
I may be batty, but both of these reads make me think the yi really wants me to follow "The [Dating] Rules."
ps Or I could be blinded by oxytocin...
Second, what climatic shift, if any, has happened since I've given him this news?
22 Unchanging
This is one I don't get often and I don't fully understand. But possibly this means that telling him nudged the relationship in the way I wish it would go, but only just very little progress. It's like the first glimpses of images on a Polaroid.
Or it could mean the courtship has officially begun... the surface stuff that predates the serious stuff.
Second, what climatic shift, if any, has happened since I've given him this news?
22 Unchanging
This is one I don't get often and I don't fully understand. But possibly this means that telling him nudged the relationship in the way I wish it would go, but only just very little progress. It's like the first glimpses of images on a Polaroid.
Or it could mean the courtship has officially begun... the surface stuff that predates the serious stuff
How does this newer partner see me and the relationship?
35.2.6 > 40
A bright spot in a dark world. He's as lovestruck as you are.
Tom you initially said this and I openly disapproved of such a statement. I said it had no basis since you cannot read his mind via the casting so I think it misleading
I stand by that. You now say he needs a period of adjustment ? Well he might but I don't see that that is what Yi is saying.
When a woman volunteers to a man that she is single, it is a clear signal that she would like a more intense relationship
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).