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Hello,
today I got the very rare chance to talk a brief moment with the workmate I really like. I was polite and friendly, but at the same time I found myself reserved and shy, even if he was keen on keeping the conversation up. But I find he was also a bit insecure. Immediately after the talk I asked the I-Ching if it really was so bad and how it could go on between us. I find the answer rather descriptive, reflecting my dissatisfaction. But I can't say if it's more encouraging or discouraging. I would be happy about your opinons. And if somebody ask themselves if I am a teenager I am not, only too shy when I like somebody.
Best regards and thank you, black milk
I asked how to proceed now and received hexagram 13.2.5.
13.2 to me clearly refers to the fact that we are workmates and that our constellation in this surrounding is embarassing at times.
The lines are conflicting. Does it simply mean, 'you two have a great chemistry, but the setting is unfortunate' or could it desrcibe a sequence of events like, now it's embarassing and later it will be better.
The relating hexagram can be different things, all to do with how you "relate" to the matter. It could be how you feel about it, what it seems like to you, the background or context. It doesn't usually mean "the future," and it's probably not a good idea to assume it does, but once in a while it means the future, what the situation could develop into. In that case, the lines might be advice on how to get from one to the other. (Realizing that you're not there yet, and there's no guarantee.)Maybe relating hexagram 14 says something about it, but I do not have so much experience with 14 as a relating hexagram.
(So read about 12, and think about how your reading might be "coming from" a state of 12-ness.)People in Harmony follows from Hexagram 12, Blocked:
'Things cannot end with blockage, and so People in Harmony follows.'
Great Possession follows from Hexagram 13, People in Harmony:
'Reaching out to people in harmony means beings truly return home, and so Great Possession follows.'
I find these texts confusing, personally. Do you have Hilary's book (https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/lea...ching-walking-your-path-creating-your-future/), or access to WikiWing? Hilary has written her own commentaries about the Sequence and the Pair which might help. Or if you have other books, look to see what (if anything) those authors have written about them.People in Harmony forms a pair with Hexagram 14, Great Possession:
‘Great possession means crowds, People in Harmony means connecting.’
Does your workplace have rules about workplace relationships? (Er, did I ask you that before and forget what you said? )
Thank you, oceangirl. The thing is, this man and me have a strong chemistry and I fear everybody around us could feel this too. I already experienced it a few times that people noticed it. One friend of mine already made a joke about it, when I was alone with her, so I know that it's not just my fantasy playing tricks on me. There is no formal restriction like a ban but you are right, I feel indeed restricted. I mean, if it would end up in being a true and sincere relationship, no one could say anything against it. But if it wouldn't work out it would be just an office flirt most probably surrounded by gossip. That's the reason why I feel inhibited in approaching him.
Fire dwells above heaven. Great Possession. A noble one ends hatred and spreads the good, She yields to heaven and rests in her mandate.
So - and I think this might fit nicely with 35.2 > 64 - maybe the small interactions you're already having with him will be enough, and "heaven" will take care of the rest if you "yield" to it and give it time?
I'm assuming these Wings are important and meaningful in your reading - they probably almost have to be.
Ahem - I've been assuming 14 refers to your relationship as a "great treasure" - and it might, but it also might not. In the context of work it could also mean "great asset" as your ability to make a living? Maybe you should read a lot more about 14 to try to decide that. Have you gotten 14 in other readings on this subject?
As I'm sure you know, this reading can't be looked at in isolation. It has to be looked at in context with the 35.2 > 64, as well as other readings you've done.
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