35.2 / How can I attract her ?

[arte33]

Dear Friends,

There is a girl with whom we had a relationship and suddenly broke down. I and she finished the communication and sometime we write or sayb hello if we see each other in the office or surrounding.
In just want to know that how can i attract her again? I insistently tried to not comunicating her but i'm worried about this behavior. There are some explanations below : I didn't understand that do i need to communicate her or not ?

Siu: The man appears to be advancing but is grieving because he is prevented from making contacts with men in authority. His perseverance in adhering to correct principles will be rewarded by blessings from the mild ruler.

Wing: Your Progress is not as fulfilling as it might be because you are prevented from experiencing significant communication with someone in authority. Yet, unexpected good fortune will come to you if you persevere in your efforts and remain virtuous in your principles.

Although delays accompany this direction, continuing on leads past the difficulties to good fortune. You eventually make contact with an important figure who is warmly supportive.



What do you think and suggest me?

Thank you and have a nice day,

 

[arte33]

Hi all,

I called this girl yesterday and we dined. I didn't talk about relationship or anything about love. Do you think that I did the right thing by calling her because today I saw another explanation about the secong changing line whinh you can find below :

You will have to grit your teeth and keep going for a while. If you hold out, you will receive help from an unexpected source.

Thanks,

 

[MoonCatcher]

I think that the Yi is telling you embrace your masculinity and not be afraid of showing your intentions.

As a woman myself; the one thing that puts me off a guy is when he's TOO cautious about making his intentions clear. It sends out the signal that he's insecure, so too much coyness on a man's part is a turn off.

Since your question is more about "how can I be more attractive"... I wouldn't think the response is a predictive one.

35 is a positive number... so be yourself, exude positivity, fun, lightheartedness - the true you and also... Don't try to be something you're not.

 

[altair139]

this hexagram and changing line is saying that you're rushing. slow down and there will be progress. hex 64 is unfinished business so it depicts a situation where you're still chasing after her.

 

[kincadefoster]

I agree with moon catcher. In your last post where you "dined together", your very language sounds clinical. Be passionate.

Think about this, would you yourself want a partner who acted that way, or would you want someone who acted passionate about you?