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Retro158

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I received the same hexagrams for essentially the same question about two weeks apart:

What is the potential for romance with X? 35.4 > 23

Getting it twice has my attention, but I don't have a sense what line 4 is about. Different interpretations talk about it as a warning, or involving dubious means - and that isn't evident in the situation to me.

I asked for clarification and got 54.4 > 19.

Any suggestions on how to view this?

Thank you.
 

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35.4 > 23
Rushing things will only break things apart. Danger
Nothing will come out of this, for more insight you have to give us back ground information such as yourself, the person in the query, how you two met and what's the relationship between you

54.4 > 19
I think the person isn't ready.
 

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Thanks for your reply. Here's a bit more background.

We've known one another or for a couple of years through a social dance community and we have very good chemistry. About a year ago, we had a bit of romantic activity but she declined to pursue it once she learned of our age difference. Last spring, I told her it was difficult for me to dance the way we do while she was dating someone else and so I stopped interacting with her for a few months. This fall, she reached out to me to 'be friends again' and so I started dancing with her again. Same chemistry, same strong magnetism and the same interest on my part for a romantic relationship.

I haven't raised the issue directly with her this time, but still find it difficult to take my attention off of her. That's why I've been asking the I Ching about the potential.

In addition to 35.4 twice, I also had these two casts a few weeks ago:
32.4 > 46 (what's happening here now?)
64.4.6 > 7 (how can I best interact with her?)

Given the the social scene we're in, it's been difficult to simply walk away and avoid the situation. And given the intensity of attraction, it's also easy for me to see 54.4 > 19 as an indicator there is still potential here, just not yet. How would you see this?

Thanks again.
 

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it's also easy for me to see 54.4 > 19 as an indicator there is still potential here, just not yet.
I dont think so, 54 talks about a third wheel (It means concubine, second wife, unilateral action), which seems to be you (since she's already attached). 19 is also not exactly g o o d for a relationship query, it's about nurture then let go. (I think particularly about the dance). Plus line 4 indicates that you've missed the chance to hit on her (the marriage is postponed), another chance would come but not necessarily to be her, could be someone else.
 

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