36.1.3.>2 am I being had?!

[jwrig04]

I have just spent the weekend at a corporate event with my boyfriend. One of the hosts was overtly flirtatious and over-friendly towards him yet cold towards me to the point that I felt uncomfortable and expressed so. I do have issues with trust – to start with - which R is aware (I'm doing what I can to deal with it), I had knots in my tummy the whole time. My partner tried to reassure me by being affectionate with me in front of her (I was surprised as he is not normally like this).

He reassured me that there was nothing going on – there never has been and that she actually likes his friend – but there was nothing in it for him. She continued to flirt with him for the entire weekend; at one point requesting to hang out with him at a 4 day business event to take place in October.

My partner explained that he would be very busy and maybe they could do lunch at the event- to which she looked disappointed. At this point I disappeared to the loo to take some deep breaths. When I returned they both looked very cheerful.
At the end of the event - another of R's business associates came to say goodbyes and said to my boyfriend - "oh when M is back in town - the 3 of us should all go out for a catch up drink" (she lives in another country) - to which I was astonished as to why this associate would associate the 2 of them together - R said he must have made a mistake and he couldnt help that and he had no idea why he thought he would be going out with a drink with M - as the nature of their work does not coincide that way.

The company have had past events to which my BF has not normally invited me to – this was the first for this company. He tells me he has

I have many questions whirling round in my head – but the chosen one was:
What is the relationship between R and MG?

I received 36.1 .3 to 2

I have thought a great deal about this to the point where it could now mean absolutely anything – such as a temporary darkening of their happiness whilst I am around – but given time as bit more or, my light has darkened because of those 2.

I would be very grateful for any feedback at all - your opinion on what I am being told. OR is there a better question I need to ask?
Soory this is a book - I thought it best to outline as mcuh info as poss.

 

[jwrig04]

did I put too much information?!

 

[willowfox]

I presume that M is a business woman who appears to not only be single but a very shrewd woman as well and not really a person who would have the slightest bit of interest in your boyfriend romantically. Her relationship with him is business rivalry. Is she competing against him?
Anyway any relationship with her would be too challenging for your boy, so rest assured that he's being a good boy and not involved in any saucy doings with her.

 

[schastlivchik]

36 seems to say that there is a tense relationship between them, and if anything, it creates negativity for your boyfriend.

Line 1 could represent him, as he appears to be less actively contributing to this relationship (line 1 is less involved in a situation). Line 3 could represent the colleague, as 3 is yang and line 3 in general is a pushy line. Lines 1 and 3 do not correspond.

It transforms into 2, which has no yang activity. It seems that their contact will diminish, or the tension will go away somehow.

In addition, you said he did his best to make you comfortable in her presence, which says good things about the two of you.

 

[jwrig04]

Thank you so much for your input. I feel a weight has been lifted from my tummy. The anxious worrying was awful. I wish I could be a robot at times like this (anyone know any tips what to do in this scenario?!).

The woman works in sales for the company that arranged the event. My boyfriend has his own company and relies on these type of events for networking and exchanging business info. My boyfriend doesnt really need to relate to her specifically (as what she sells he doesnt buy) but he said it was in his best interests to maintain good relationships with all associates from this company so to be invited to future events which are usually on a grand scale.

He said that although she may fancy him it was purely one-sided. Indeed it was her that was touching his chest and asking him what he thought of her new toned muscles since she had been working out etc. R maintained a polite and friendly demeanor and touched me a lot - I was so wrapped up in my own worries that i just froze! But I see now the touching me was positive.

I also asked what will happen between them when on the business trip - I got 36.1 > 15 - which I think confirms he his doing his best to keep the peace and keep his head low to strive towards his business goal by doing the right thing morally despite the surroundings.

Thank you for your input i know it was a bit of a book to read! Sorry! I really appreciate your help.

Love light and warmth to you both

 

[jwrig04]

I presume that M is a business woman who appears to not only be single but a very shrewd woman as well and not really a person who would have the slightest bit of interest in your boyfriend romantically. Her relationship with him is business rivalry. Is she competing against him?
Anyway any relationship with her would be too challenging for your boy, so rest assured that he's being a good boy and not involved in any saucy doings with her.

Another thought has just occured to me. Willowfox I am very curious as to why you say rivalry and competing? Do you see this in the Lines? Amazingly - the person who is a rival to me and always seems to be competing for attention of my bf is his friend - who also came along to the event - he is not involved in the industry either and I am wondering if he put m up to this, the last time I saw him he tried to grope me to which after deliberation i told my bf, my bf said yes he is like this he is a sleaze and he is also jealous of our relationship that I cant be his wing anymore. My bf has confided in him about my insecurity issues in the past - so it is possible he did put M up to this and maybe he was hoping for a far worse reaction.

 

[jwrig04]

I asked what part friend had in all this and I got 1.1>44
hidden dragon do not act..... leading to a bold woman. This seems crystal clear that I have been had by the friend who set me up....am i on the right track?

 

[willowfox]

I asked what part friend had in all this and I got 1.1>44
hidden dragon do not act..... leading to a bold woman. This seems crystal clear that I have been had by the friend who set me up....am i on the right track?

You folks in England seem to play some very strange jokes at times.

Line 1.1 has a hidden dragon lurking in the background and Hex 44 has a person that you are advised not to get involved with as they are liable to bite you.