37 to 45

[mohsen]

hi all, i've asked Yi what would happened if i call my ex-girl friend and apologize for treating her so bad, wether it would help to repair the relation or vanish the remains. i think what happened was my fault and it's on me to apologize. however, i've received 37.1,3,4,6 changing into 45.
i think it says it will help to repair, but i wanna ask you, while i'm so beginner and really shocked by different interpretation i've read these days on hexs. so please share your ideas, that would be helpful, tnx all..

 

[willowfox]

Go ahead and do the right thing, and apologize.

 

[rosada]

I read all these change lines as telling you what you need to say and do.

37.1
Firm seclusion within the family.
Remorse disappears.

She may not be willing to even talk to you at first.
However...

37.3
When tempers flare of in the family,
Too great severity brings remorse.
Good fortune none the less.

This line sounds like she isn't so mad at you that she wants to stay separated, but she had to break it off until you learned to shape up.

37.4
She is the treasure of the house.

Show up at the house with flowers. Apologize. Tell her you love her.

37.6
His work commands respect.
In the end good fortune comes.

Do this right and you'll get back together.

45.
Gathering Together.

The superior man renews his weapons in order to meet the unforeseen.

Be ready to explain why this will never happen again.

Also, most likely word has spread about your break up and now if you are going to reunite you will probably have to deal with the opinions of people outside the relationship. You may have to show the whole clan you are a reformed man.

 

[mohsen]

hi willowfox, tnx for your reply.

 

[mohsen]

hi rosada,
tnx a lot for your thoughtful comment, it went exactly as you exlained, tnx agian..it was really good and now things are slowly goning to be better,
i, too, think i should show the changes to oe more person, who is her cloe friend and maybe is so influential on her, but i have no access to her (the friend), however, i will stay to things gradually become better...

agian: tnx a lot

 

[petrosianii]

Some questions need not be asked

Hi, Moshen,

Though I'm sure by now you've gotten the answers you needed, I still fell compelled to add my two cents in. Both these hexagrams - 37 & 45 - I received quite a bit over the years. And both these hexagrams have caused me great consternation over the yrs.

You asked what will happen as a result of apologizing. As both 37 and 45 deal with groups of important relationships, it seems very auspicious indeed that you received these in in an inquiry about a relationship. Both hexagrams speak of gathering (assembling) relationships. Both also deal with setting in order important relationships.

Very obvious what the effect of apology will be.

 

[mohsen]

dear petrosianii, tnx alot. your reply had realy encouraged me on the way. you know, i had no doubt about the interpretation of the two hexs on my behalf. but, i'm so beginner, and i wanted to ask someone professional to help me, while it might says something more that i can't get it..


however, i really thank you, and i will still ask you for the interpretations