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There is a man, The only man that makes me open myself even if I am an introvert. We have very deep conversations together and I enjoy every minute with him...
I asked I ching if predicts a romantic relationship between us 38.1.3.4.6 >46

38.1 He isn't someone I lost because we haven't been together. So I guess the line shows that I don't or I shouldn't run after him.
38.3 The situation seems to be hopeless, I should cling to what I think right (do not run after him)
38.4 "one meets a like-minded man with whom one can associate in good faith" indeed. Exactly what I feel with him.
38.6 Strange line, actually there isn't any feeling of resentment or mistrust or hostility. Perhaps as the last line of hex 38 Opposition is auspicious. The opposition ends "He is not a robber; he will woo at the right time. As one goes, rain falls; then good fortune comes."

46 Ascending. Pushing Upward. Promotion. 'the superior man of devoted character heaps up small things in order to achieve something high and great.'
Does it show that somebody moves on and leaving the other behind? Or is it a very good answer for a step by step relationship?
 

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This is just one possible interpretation; maybe think about how you are opposed? I wonder what makes you opposing or currently only makes the small possible between you. Maybe figuring that out would give some answers on how to move forward (46)? It seems that either you would accept certain differences and limitations and move forward in that way, within the limits of what’s possible, or accept that somehow you are fundamentally opposed and move on.

Since you have such positive feelings for him I’m not sure what to make of the oppositional energy. Opposing can be very intimate tbh, I’ve had lines 2 and 4 and even 6 for people I’m quite close to so there’s more to it than just opposing but it seems like there would be a big challenge. What is the challenge?

I asked I ching if predicts a romantic relationship between us 38.1.3.4.6 >46

38.1. you thought you couldn’t be together or had a reason to put him out of your mind but the person and/or feelings resurfaced

38.3 nothing came of it or something negative occurred and you have to deal with that. 38.3 tends to be really significant disappointment or heartbreak. Maybe you saw a reason or obstacle you can’t be together?

38.4 Yet, you still have these conversations that feel very intimate to you and this stirs up feelings.

38.6 He is not your enemy or ill-intentioned, and there is even some good there, but something about the topic of marriage is hurtful (they are married? or they aren’t interested in marriage? not sure if any of that is true). The idea of connection is floating around but it may not come to much even if no one’s intentions are bad.

38 > 46 could be progressing only in small ways? Maybe nothing major can happen with this person but you still have 38.4 connection (they help you in some way) for what that is worth to you.

38.6 can be a hopeful line in a way but, personally, I’ve received it more as meaning that, despite differences, we don’t need to be enemies more than a very successful connection ultimately happening.
 
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Thank you redoleander for posting. This is interesting because you have an entire different point of you. I don't know if there will be any negative feeling between us but we are fine at the moment.​


Anyway, I asked what could I do to make him fall in love with me:
22.1.3.4 > 35
From the above answer I think I should be simple, beautiful, with very good manners towards him.. Does the answer show that I need to act towards him or waiting for him to act? Line 4 seems to show the woman feeling doubts about the man, I feel doubts if he likes me indeed.
 
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22.1 Go your own road, take your time
22.3 Show your beauty, indulge in beautiful things together, engage with the good side of life
22.4 Put your whole heart in, use romantic gestures that have real meaning behind them. Trust and go for it fully.

It sounds like classic romance and dating, although perhaps line 1 includes a bit more space than that. Maybe it’s about being so interested and engaged in your own life that it intrigues him? Or simply trusting your instincts and timing.
 

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22.1 Go your own road, take your time
22.3 Show your beauty, indulge in beautiful things together, engage with the good side of life
22.4 Put your whole heart in, use romantic gestures that have real meaning behind them. Trust and go for it fully.

It sounds like classic romance and dating, although perhaps line 1 includes a bit more space than that. Maybe it’s about being so interested and engaged in your own life that it intrigues him? Or simply trusting your instincts and timing.
So, do you think that I should finally act and go for it?
 

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