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What do I need to do to find the right man? 38.2.6 > 51

51 - examine myself; or simply do nothing and I will be surprised
38.2 - nothing, it will happen out of the blue
38.6 - I won't recognize him at first as someone right for me; I should accept differences and be receptive to people who I wouldn't normally like; the right guy is not as I picture him to be

Maybe I already know him and I'm not aware of him...ha ha! :eek:

Any other views on this reading?

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51 is Chen, one of the 6 pure hexagram. Arousing over arousing. Shocking waves. Work at it.
This means, dress to attract, composure to attract,,, and do whatever you need to attract the proper target so that you may have a chance.

Iching reading works when you have a real person to fill the other slot. Your question is very abstract and as a result, the answer is abstract. Two pieces of wood banging on each other. The sound is hollow and the strike is shocking. There is substance to gain.

38 means two individuals with different opinion, and resulting in one person walking away and still looking back as the person departs. It is a "Y". The persons are splitting to do their own things.

Want a partner... Look for common interest & communication and do not settle for overcoming differences. This approach will not work. If you were born on the year of rat (si water) or horse (wu fire), chances may improve in 2014.
 

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Thank you, Long Yi. I'm born in the year of water pig.

I know what you're giving me is good advice. I've always felt attracted to and searched for people with common interests , but... that hasn't got me very far. Who I think is right for me (like minded and all that) turns out not to be.

So I wonder...is there really no point in overcoming the differences and misunderstandings? Yi gave me 38.6 and that line has a powerful message for me. Maybe there's a pattern here, all my great friendships have started with mutual dislike. People I thought were wrong for me because they seemed too different turned out to be the most important persons in my life.
 

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Long Yi, I decided to ask a less abstract question (what are the chances for a relationship with S, a man I like) in the hope that the answer will also tell me more about my chances for a good relationship in general. The cast was 36.2 to 11. What do you think, is it still bad?

Thank you.
 
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"Do not settle for overcoming differences."

That's great Long Yi! Would you speak on it more, or if borrowed from somewhere, share the origin?

Thank you,
Moss Elk, water rat.
 

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Eastern_girl,

I think 38 -6 speaks more to your own personal initial misjudgements of character than to a compatibility thing.
I misjudged people all the time, sometimes too harshly, sometimes too leniently.
 

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I think 38 -6 speaks more to your own personal initial misjudgements of character than to a compatibility thing.

Yes, I guess that's what I meant too. With some people, the differences are not real. Sometimes I fail to recognize from the beginning the people I belong with. It happened with my best friends. Maybe I have trust issues and I'm being cautious. It takes time to really know a person.
 

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"Maybe I have trust issues and I'm being cautious. It takes time to really know a person."

Once bitten twice shy, goes the saying...
Caution is a great thing.
It does take time to get to know someone,
especially when they have hidden things.
I was in a relationship for six months before my partners
multiple personalities came out. Im not exaggerating,
I got her into therapy. She had D.I.D., and personality fragments.
One of them was psychotic.

I think 38.2 says you dont know him yet, but will meet him in a 'chance' encounter.
 

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Oh, sorry to hear that, Moss Elk. Sounds like a tough experience. But one to learn from, I guess.
I hope everything is good for you now. :)

I think 38.2 says you dont know him yet, but will meet him in a 'chance' encounter.

Well, he better be arriving soon, cause I see him in my tarot cards and he seems a nice guy... :rofl:
 

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Thanks, everything is fine now.
My home life is peaceful and free of crazy people.

Now where did I put my tinfoil hat..... :)
 

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36.2 to 11

36.2 to 11

起卦时间:2014年02月02日10时41分
起卦农历:甲午年正月初三日巳时

神煞:天乙—丑未 福星—寅 日禄—寅 羊刃—卯 驿马—寅 桃花—酉 华盖—辰
干支:癸巳年 乙丑月 甲辰日 己巳时
旬空:午未  戌亥  寅卯  戌亥

六神  伏神    坎宫:地火明夷(游魂)    坤宫:地天泰(六合)
         【本 卦】           【变 卦】
玄武       ▅▅ ▅▅ 父母癸酉金     ▅▅ ▅▅ 父母癸酉金 应
白虎       ▅▅ ▅▅ 兄弟癸亥水     ▅▅ ▅▅ 兄弟癸亥水  
滕蛇       ▅▅ ▅▅ 官鬼癸丑土 世   ▅▅ ▅▅ 官鬼癸丑土  
勾陈 妻财戊午火 ▅▅▅▅▅ 兄弟己亥水     ▅▅▅▅▅ 官鬼甲辰土 世
朱雀       ▅▅ ▅▅ 官鬼己丑土  ×→  ▅▅▅▅▅ 子孙甲寅木  
青龙       ▅▅▅▅▅ 子孙己卯木 应   ▅▅▅▅▅ 兄弟甲子水  
體生用,婚難成,或因婚有失。

The change hexagram has kun earth at the top trigram and chien metal at the bottom trigram. You (kun) are too receptive and the picture is hollow. The bottom trigram is him (metal). It also looks better than real. Since both parties have this hollow feeling, this will not work for a solid relationship.

There is not enough chemistry between you and this man, not is there the motivation energy to get together. He knows you, and may think about you. So do you about him.

Line 36.2 is the change line for the man to move towards a younger female or backing away from you. He also suspects that you are not available at all and has someone else (11.2 merges with 11.5).

It is not entirely bad. The two parties must communicate to plan where they should go from this point forward. Love has not quite developed yet. So there is a need for patience. If it is someone from work, you first have to hint to him that you are available for dating or social outing. You will not find anyone to help you (line 36.3 and 36.5 are hollow lines).

In any event, you will not enter the picture because I do not see you having any chemistry with him in the change hexagram at this time.

This is a temporary picture. I doubt you even talk to each other at this time. Learn to know the other person, & observe. I do not think there may be a positive outcome. Spark is missing.
 

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"Do not settle for overcoming differences."

That's great Long Yi! Would you speak on it more, or if borrowed from somewhere, share the origin?

Thank you,
Moss Elk, water rat.

Do not settle for overcoming differences.. Those are my words of the moment. Sometimes, when two opposite sex meet each other, one party or both may try very hard to settle differences to be together eventually. This will lead to problems after marriage. There must be common goal, good communication and also common vision for building a future. Compromise is fine. Overcoming differences means the frequency is so different and it will be painful to put up with that for a life time.
 

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Long Yi, this is strong work. I can't believe how accurate it is. Thank you for taking time and helping me with this reading.


He knows you, and may think about you. So do you about him.

I do. All the time. I have reasons to believe he thinks about me too.

He also suspects that you are not available


For many reasons, that is very possible.

If it is someone from work, you first have to hint to him that you are available for dating or social outing.

We used to work together, not anymore.

I doubt you even talk to each other at this time.

True. We both made some mistakes in the past. And we both regret them but our egos stay in the way of reconcilliation.

Thank you. :bows:
 

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