38.4.5.6 to 60 overcome?

[mariella]

Hi, and thank you for reading. I have an ex husband, we had two children, and we split more than 5 years ago. The relationship is good: we see sometimes for birthdays os Christmas with children (they are in their twenties) we are in contact for practical issue via email. But I know there is still something in me that does not let me to be dispassionate. I would probably never see him again, or yes, but always it push me in a trouble mood. I am a little bit in conflict because I would have a normal and nice relationship, but when I see him I always have a sense of discomfort. So today I asked: what shall I do to overcome?
And I got 38.4.5.6 to 60. The changing lines are positive, meaning that I will succeed... But what shall I do? What's the meaning of opposing, and the 60 hex, Measure, means that is better if I do not keep any contact? Or is instead too hard? Please let me know. I am really tired and I feel also a stupid....
Thank you!

 

[Trojina]

Hi, and thank you for reading. I have an ex husband, we had two children, and we split more than 5 years ago. The relationship is good: we see sometimes for birthdays os Christmas with children (they are in their twenties) we are in contact for practical issue via email. But I know there is still something in me that does not let me to be dispassionate. I would probably never see him again, or yes, but always it push me in a trouble mood. I am a little bit in conflict because I would have a normal and nice relationship, but when I see him I always have a sense of discomfort. So today I asked: what shall I do to overcome?
And I got 38.4.5.6 to 60. The changing lines are positive, meaning that I will succeed... But what shall I do? What's the meaning of opposing, and the 60 hex, Measure, means that is better if I do not keep any contact? Or is instead too hard? Please let me know. I am really tired and I feel also a stupid....
Thank you!

Not sure I really understand your situation but I think the 60 would show here that you only have a limited sphere in which to act or influence. 38>60. Estrangement's Limitation. it feels like there is an awkwardness about the protocol, of what is 'allowed' and 'not allowed' between you and this is quite stultifying (yang pattern 12) ...it seems to me all this can be broken through if you can overcome that awkwardness (38.5) and possibly understand that the bad things between you maybe weren't so bad ? (38.6) More than anything else this just feels awkward, as if embarrassing, and that can be a big block but it needn't be.