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nAstWr

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I share with you one more yi's answer in case someone could help me.

Talking to yi:
I am so confused, some casts show that I will be together with my ex, some of them that we will remain apart permanently. What is accurate?
hexagram 39 changing line 4 to hexagram 31

Really, I can't believe that the line shows reconciliation but you never know. I tend to believe that this is the end, moreover I have decided to move on and that's what I do.
 

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Hi nAstWr,

"What is accurate?"
39.4 to 31 ~ After 4 (months? years?) of difficulty, there will be a meeting of the minds, but a reconciliation seems unlikely.

It seems that you are wise to move on?

I hope this helps!
 
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thank you radiofreewill. Could you please write where the 4 months/years came from?

I am thinking about my answer.. I can see a lot of possibilities but certainly I am not the one who will go back.
 

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I read 39 as a life-parallel story patterned on Yu's taming of the flood, which took years. It was a time of disrupted family relationships for him, as he prioritized dredging the Yellow and Yangtze rivers, cutting passes thru the mountains and walling-off the marshes, sometimes passing by his own house without stopping.

So, for me, reading this hexagram always seems to take into consideration both the nature of the obstruction and the length of the entanglement ~ how long can you expect to be hobbled by this situation?

I use the line positions ~ line 4, for instance ~ to be the cue for the time...

With your cast, it 'feels' to me like the scale of time is 'years' before the flood will be tamed, but it's something that only you can gauge for yourself, so I give it as a range of scale, based on the line position ~ as a suggestion for meditation?

I hope this helps, and best of luck!
 
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Update:

We exchange some messages with my ex. We end up fighting for our mistakes.. one blame the other and a chaos resultant. I blame him that he sees someone while he has told me that he wants to think about us. He insisted that there is noone and after that he stopped to answer to my messages and he asked me to leave him calm down.

My new questions to yi...

What can I do to restore our bad relationship: hex 56
It makes to me that it is just a temporary situation. It will pass.

My best action towards him?
Hex 11 changing line 1 to 46
Yes.. try to improve the situation..
But how? Small things in order to achieve sth great?

Yi Advice me please:
Hex 40 Changing line 1 to hex 54
No problem.. don't do anything... what??

What is he going to do towards me after all:
Hex 51 changing lines 4, 5,6, to hex 42
So many shocks.. im so scared :(

Will he answer me?
Hex 54, changing lines 1 and 2 to hex 16
It seems yes to me with 54.1.. 54.2 refers to me? And I am so confused with hex 16.. be prepared for what?

Will he come back to me?
Hex 46
Yes? No?

Will he try to restore our relationship?
Hex 34 changing lines 3 and 4 to hex 19
I was really forceful and I am stuck now. I dont know what to do. I feel terrible. I have just to sit and wait to see what happens?

Is our situation a dead end?
Hexagram 28, changing lines 2,4,5 to hex 15
28 a very bad situation.. 15 the things come into conclusion... so I would say no

What is he going to do with our relationship?
Hexagram 28 changing lines 2 and 5 to hex 62
Both lines speak about the poplar and relationships. He is thinking about us but he is not going to do anything hex 62?

Sorry. I know there are too many questions! I feel so desperate after all. I need your invaluable help.

PS hex 31 indeed means contact that hurts
-words that hurt- :(
 

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