39.5 - 15

[casmael]

Hey,

Asked this a few days ago, and still a tad confused: any ideas?

I have known a person for a few months - in a fairly ambiguous manner, as it were - and being unsure of how to move the relationship along, asked the I Ching how best I could win her as a partner. I threw 39 (obstruction) with a movement in the fifth place, leading to 15 (modesty).

much appreciated

 

[diamanda]

If you enlist the help of friends, you will succeed.
Don't go forth by yourself. Your/common friends are the answer.
15 means be modest, but it also means "The superior man carries things through".